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TELL ME ABOUT YOURSEL GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… The interviewer is trying to accomplish a few things here. First, she is asking about your career path and giving you an opportunity to describe your professional self in your own words before narrowing down on specific skills and qualifications. Second, she is gaining a sense of what kind of person you are and what you would be like to work with. In addition, this is your chance to summarize your background and bring attention to the significant information that could not be included in your resume and cover letter. ACTIVITIES What are the two things that the interviewer is trying to accomplish by asking this question? What does ‘your professional self’ mean? GUIDELINE How should you respond to “tell me about yourself” in an interview? To talk about your professional self, you will need to do two things. First, you will need to identify your professional accomplishments. Second, you will need to tailor your achievements to the needs of the company. So, what are your greatest achievements? Ask yourself: Have you ever accomplished anything at work that you can illustrate with numbers? (Good examples are making revenue, saving costs, or improving process.) Can you think of accomplishments that demonstrate how well you use a skill? Did you ever win an award or receive a promotion? Note, you do not have to take your examples from your job experience. If you have little or no work experience, you can take examples and success stories from anywhere. Are you a student or fresh graduate? Your achievements can include success stories from your extracurricular activities. The point of the exercise is to identify your achievements. Once you have a master list of your top achievements, go back and take a long look at your job Mobile User Mobile User Mobile User Mobile User Mobile User Mobile User Mobile User Mobile User description. Underline all the skills and requirements listed. Where do you exceed the requirements? Here is an example of a job description for a Product Marketing Manager: Notice the keywords underlined in the job description: Strong analytical skills Can optimize the use of data and information to uncover customer insight Can provide strong evidence-based analyses that build brand equity and a differential advantage Customer Focused Can develop and sustain positive relationships to obtain customer insight. Strong communication skills (verbal and written) Can coordinate information and requirements with related operational departments Proactive in identifying needs/issues Can employ effective solutions in a timely manner Detailed and action oriented You could choose a success story based on communication. You could talk about the time you developed a relationship that gave your insight. Now, look back at your master list of achievements. You will want to circle those that match the qualities you find in your job offer. The next step is to choose a couple that you feel strongest about and use the STAR approach to illustrate them. ACTIVITIES What are your greatest achievements? Have you ever accomplished anything at work that you can illustrate with numbers? (Good examples are earning money, cutting costs, or improving efficiency.) Can you think of accomplishments that demonstrate how well you use a skill? Was there a time when your boss praised you? Did you ever win an award or receive a promotion? Write down as many achievements as you can think of now. Read the job description and highlight the requirements you think are relevant to you. GUIDELINE Example “tell me about yourself” answer Your response should only last a couple of minutes. Who are you as a professional and what are you doing right now? Your tell me about yourself answer should be a brief elevator pitch of your professional self. “I am a Copywriter with 5+ years of experience working for large advertising companies. I’ve worked with clients including Pfizer, Coca-Cola, and Johnson & Johnson.” Use the examples you have come up with to illustrate the skills and value you will bring to the position. Do not forget to use the STAR approach when answering the tell me about yourself interview question. “I am highly dedicated and ambitious. Every time I start a new campaign, I aim to win an award or nomination. Of course, my ultimate goal is to please the client. But the fact that I aim high has resulted in at least 20 industry awards and nominations.” For example, I once led a project for a client who was sure that he did not want to add digital media to his campaign budget. He was not behind the times, but he was sure that his client-base was. My Creative Director asked that I get the client on board. So, I created some samples, and I put together a presentation. I set out to show the client that he was missing an entire demographic of untapped customers. He was sold. He added digital media to his campaign budget making my boss happy. The work I put into the digital campaign to impress the client was above and beyond what we normally do. The result was two Cannes Lions awards.” You will want to stress that the position is in line with your plans and career goals. It is also a good idea to make it sound like you are interested in staying on for a while. “While I enjoyed my previous work, it was commercial. It is a dream of mine to do work for nonprofit clients. Your company has done some amazing work for nonprofit and NGO clients and I would love to switch gears. That’s why I applied for this position.” ACTIVITIES Write your professional persona. Write what makes you stand out (2 – 4 points). Are you using STAR approach? Here you will want to tailor your tell me about yourself answer to the job and the company. Which of your achievements will match those listed in the job description? Write why you are going to fit. Now rehearse with your tutor until you are comfortable answering the question without your script. WHY SHOULD WE HIRE YOU? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… For the hiring manager to make an informed decision about whether you are right for the job, they will often ask a combination of both tricky and direct questions. One common direct question often asked in interviews is: “Why should we hire you?” Do not freak out. While this question can seem overwhelming, it also gives you the chance to convince them you are the best choice. With preparation, you can explain with confidence how you are the perfect candidate. Follow the steps below to shine in answering, “Why should we hire you?” ACTIVITIES Review the job description before you answer. Connect the description to why you would be the best fit. Ponder the reasons why you, and not the next person, should get the job. What experiences have you excelled in that set you apart from the other candidates? GUIDELINE #1. Research In preparation for the interview, record what skills and experiences you have acquired are most applicable to the job. Focus on these key characteristics while answering. It also may be helpful to know what problems the organization is struggling with so you can show your willingness to help in solving those challenges. #2. Know you’re the One Know the keywords and phrases included in the job description and in the interview. Pick up on what qualities are emphasized then match your own skills and experiences to match what the hiring manager is looking for. However, make sure you are sincere. Support your statements with related examples and experiences so they know for certain that you’re the real deal. #3. Add Your Value Prove your worth by using examples of experiences that show whatvalue you will bring. Instead of just saying, “I’m very organized”, add the example of when you coordinated multiple projects at the same time and excelled in each. Highlight how your management of each project contributes to your organization skills. Communicate to the employer that you are not only qualified but will also bring value to the organization. ACTIVITIES Write down your top skills that are related Combine your top skills with the value you will add to the organization. Practice your answer with confidence with your tutor GUIDELINE Example Answer When answering the question, “Why should we hire you?” consider the following example: “With a passion for this industry, skills, and experience to thrive in this role and an eagerness to serve with X, I know I would be a great fit here. I have the qualifications, experience, and advantages to add value to this organization. For example, in my previous job, I enhanced my skills in X and gained experience working in multiple roles. I developed problem-solving techniques in Y, which is something your organization is facing as well.” With such experience, skills, and knowledge, I am confident I will bring a unique value to the team that sets me apart from other candidates. I look forward to the opportunity to show that.” WHAT IS YOUR GREATEST STRENGTH? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… Here is a chance for you to highlight what you are really good at to offer the organization. Highlight the skills you have learned and explain how those skills fit into your desired job to show them you are the strongest candidate. ACTIVITIES What are some of your top skills? How do those skills What examples have helped you develop those skills? GUIDELINE Points to Emphasize While you have many skills, focus on matching your skills with your desired job. In addition, keep these tips in mind: Be specific about your skills Support what you say with examples Prepare and think about what your skills are, honestly Be sure you know the job responsibilities so you can match your skills with the description Believe in yourself and your skills. ACTIVITIES Take a few moments to consider what you are really good at. Provide an example of how you have demonstrated a specific skill. What skills in the job description match with your skills? GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid Make sure you do not sound arrogant or extreme by avoiding: Absolutes like “best” – unless as part of an award or title Language that’s not specific Statements that show you’re too competitive Criticizing yourself Be prepared with the reason why the interviewer should hire you. ACTIVITIES Review your list of skills – do any use absolutes like “best” or “most” Do you have a specific way to describe your skills? Be aware of times when you criticize yourself GUIDELINE Sample Answer Present yourself well with this example to answer the question, “What is your greatest strength?” “My previous experiences have taught me to be highly organized in managing multiple projects, work well as a team member and be committed to seeing the organization succeed. For example, in my previous position, I was part of a marketing company and handled many clients all at the same time. I was able to contribute to all clients, share progress updates with my team members and grow the company in efficiency and revenue.” This is a common question asked in interviews, so be sure to prepare. WHAT IS YOUR GREATEST WEAKNESS? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… The question, “What is your greatest weakness,” helps to tell the hiring manager what skills you will need to improve on. It is also a great opportunity for you to tell them of a weakness you had in the past but took action to overcome it. ACTIVITIES Think about some of your weaknesses Which weakness (es) could you address in the interview? Consider your past weaknesses – how have you overcome them? GUIDELINE Points to Emphasize There are ways you can talk about your weaknesses that do not sound negative, such as: How you overcame a weakness A weakness that doesn’t prevent you doing a good job A weakness that is actually a strength Spin it around to talk about your strengths This question about your weaknesses is an opportunity to discuss what you have done in the past to improve your skills. ACTIVITIES Think of a time when you overcame a weakness Consider how you could describe a weakness as actually a strength Make sure your weaknesses are related to the job or industry GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid To make sure you answer this question well, avoid these common mistakes: Don’t say you don’t have any weaknesses Don’t talk about weaknesses that prevent you from doing a good job Don’t just skip over your weaknesses Don’t be too honest While honesty is important, you should not bring up all the things you want to improve in yourself. Use this time to sell yourself and utilize this question to your advantage. ACTIVITIES Are any of your weaknesses too honest? Do any of your weaknesses prevent you from doing your job well? Does your discussion of weaknesses help to show you are the right fit for the job? GUIDELINE Sample Answer Here is an example of how to answer the question, “What’s your greatest weakness?” “Sometimes, I can be too critical of myself and my work. I have spent a lot of time reviewing all of my work to make sure it was perfect. Now, I’ve learned to trust my skills and not get caught up in all the insignificant details.” Notice how this response turns your weakness into an improvement and strength. Be sure the examples you provide relate to the job you are trying to get. WHY DO YOU WANT TO WORK HERE? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… The question, “Why do you want to work here?” lets the hiring manager know how much research you have done and if you know what the job involves. Your answer should show that you have prepared well for the interview and that you respect the organization. ACTIVITIES Have you researched the organization well? Review the job description so you know every detail. Think about what makes the organization a great fit for you. GUIDELINE Points to Emphasize In researching the organization, highlight these topics: Something unique about the organization that you appreciate and why. How your skills and experience fit in with the organization’s identity. The organization’s mission statement. The positive aspects of the organization you are passionate about. ACTIVITIES Find something unique about the organization. Review the organization’s mission statement. Think about how your skills and passions fit in with the organization. GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid To answer this question well, avoid these common mistakes: Do not come across as overly passionate about how amazing the organization is. Focus on the aspects that you sincerely appreciate about the company. Do not say reasons like ‘you need the money.’ It is rude and shows the hiring manager that you are not interested in working for more meaningful reasons. Do not enter the interview without researching the organization first. ACTIVITIES Select the aspects of the organization that you genuinely appreciate Review your research on the organization Does your reason include things such as ‘just a paycheck?’ If so, change your answer. GUIDELINE Sample Answer Here’s an example in answering the question, “Why do you want to work here?”: “In reading the company’s mission statement, I feellike the organization’s goals and values align well with my skills and values as well.” Be sure to add details and examples to show you are well qualified. WHERE DO YOU SEE YOURSELF IN 5 YEARS? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… In asking the question, “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?” the hiring manager can learn if your goals line up with the company’s goals and if they can count on you to stick around for a while. In your answer, it is important to be honest and match your response to the specific job. ACTIVITIES What are your long-term career goals? How can you align those goals with the organization’s industry? Do your goals show your commitment to work? GUIDELINE Points to Emphasize Keep these tips in mind to show your goals match the position: Show how you are prepared for the position and how you will move forward with the skills, you gain. Keep your goals open-ended so that they will also contribute to the company. Show them you are a long-term investment by saying how the organization will help you in your goals. Be motivational in your response and honest about what you want. ACTIVITIES Consider how you plan to move forward with the experience in this job. Does your response show you are in it for the long-term? Is your response motivational yet honest? GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid Watch out for these common mistakes in responses: Do not compete against the people already in the room – that is not your job. Do not take your focus away from the job you want. Do not have a timer on your employment – they are often not looking for temporary workers. Do not forget that the people in the room can be the ones that help you succeed in your career goals. ACTIVITIES Does your answer include a set timeline of your career goals? Does your response keep the focus on the job? Consider how the interviewer and others in the room could help you succeed. GUIDELINE Sample Answer Here is an example in answering the question, “Where do you see yourself in five years?” “In five years, I hope to have moved into a role much like this one. I hope to have an impact on the organization’s development. While I don’t know what that will be, I’m up for the challenge.” Responses like these encourage the interviewer to think about the future of the company with you yet open-ended enough to show your potential for growth. DO YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS FOR ME? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… Often toward the end of the interview, the hiring manager will ask, “Do you have any questions for me?” Having good questions to ask shows you have prepared for the interview that you want to be sure the organization is a fit for you, and that you are interested in the organization. ACTIVITIES How do you think asking questions shows interest in the organization? Consider what aspects of the organization or role you would really want to know. How could you ask those questions to help boost your strengths? GUIDELINE Points to Emphasize In your response, be sure to: Ask about topics such as management style or what the typical work week looks like. Use your questions to determine if you feel you are a good fit with the organization. Find out the details about the position, such as start dates, special responsibilities, or if the position is new. Ask about the timeline of the position with questions like how soon they would need a response if you got an offer. Be prepared with quality questions before your interview. ACTIVITIES What aspects of the organization could help tell you if you would be a good fit? How could you use those aspects in forming a question? Do you know the timeline of the position? GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid To answer this question effectively, avoid these common mistakes: Do not ask questions like what the company does – these show you are not interested. Do not ask about vacation time or time off before you know you have the job. Do not ask about how to change your work schedule. Do not ask if you got the job. ACTIVITIES Have you researched the organization so you can ask informed questions? Does your list of questions you would want to ask include details like time off? Consider what questions you could ask that show you have done your research and preparation. GUIDELINE Sample Answer Here is an example of a response to the question, “Do you have any questions for me?” “I wanted to ask about the management style in the organization. Is it hands-on or hands-off? Has the supervisor worked with someone with these responsibilities before?” Be sure all your questions you ask are positive. Give time for the interviewer to answer. WHAT DO YOU KNOW ABOUT THE COMPANY? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… In your interview, you may be asked the question, “What do you know about the company?” The interviewer wants to know if you have done your research, if you are really interested in the company, if there are any issues, and if you’d be a good fit with the organization. This is a great opportunity to show your interest in the position. ACTIVITIES Have you done research so you can give an informed answer? Have you spoken to other employees or connections at the organization? Consider the areas of the organization in which you are really interested. GUIDELINE Points to Emphasize There is a lot of information you could include. Be sure to: Research before your interview. Show your excitement for the organization with your knowledge of it. If you do not know all the inside details of the company, this is a great opportunity to learn more. Be positive. Be specific about what you appreciate about the company. ACTIVITIES Have you done research into the company beyond just their website? What things about the organization do you wonder about? Consider how you can show your passion for the organization in your response. GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid In your answer, be sure to avoid these common mistakes: Do not ignore the interviewer. If they share additional information, respond to it. Do not talk for too long. Demonstrate your knowledge. Do not avoid asking follow-up questions. If you are not sure about something, do not say it with certainty. ACTIVITIES Is your response flexible to include additional information from the interviewer? Be prepared with how to respond if you hear additional information. Consider what follow-up questions you could respond with. GUIDELINE Sample Answer Here is an example of the question, “What do you know about the company?” “The charitable work that this organization does is very appealing to me. The dedication to the community is one of the biggest reasons that excite me about working with this organization in this role.” WHAT’S YOUR DREAM JOB? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… With the question, “What’s your dream job?” the hiring manager is to understand your values and motivations and to determine if you have the skills to do the job. Unfortunately, many people respond to this question by either: saying their dream job is the job they’re applying for describing an unrealistic or unrelated job When answering this question, focus on the challenges and work environment you like rather than a specific position. In addition, be sure your response is relevant to the job you are applying for. ACTIVITIES Consider what kind of environment you are looking to work in. What challenges do you enjoy taking on? How can you apply your answerto the job you are applying for? GUIDELINE What to Mention in Your Response Follow these tips for an effective response: Include examples of how you have used your skills and how you hope to grow those skills. Describe what interests you. Talk about how your dream job relates to what you value in a career. ACTIVITIES What are some examples of how you have enjoyed using your skills? What are industry-related things that interest you? What are some of your career values? GUIDELINE What NOT to Mention in Your Response In your response, watch out for these common mistakes: Do not include jobs that do not relate to the position you are interviewing for. Don’t be unrealistic in your ambitions. Do not be lazy and say the position you are applying for is your dream job. ACTIVITIES Are the qualities you are looking for related to the job you’re interviewing for? Is your response realistic? Does your response sound like you have prepared for the interview well? GUIDELINE Sample Answer Here’s an example of the response to the question, “What‘s your dream job”: “My dream job would provide opportunities to grow my passion for writing content for organizations. I love getting to know my clients and writing to meet their needs. For example, at my last position, I served clients from many different industries. This job here excites me because I can serve a range of clients.” Notice how this example does not include a specific career role. Instead, it highlights the traits and qualities you enjoy and what challenges you want to pursue. WHAT OTHER COMPANIES ARE YOU INTERVIEWING WITH? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… The hiring manager asks, “What other companies are you interviewing with?” to: Set a timeline for the hiring process. Understand how many similar positions are open. Get a sense of your popularity if you are a valuable candidate somewhere else. ACTIVITIES Are you pursuing more than one open position? Do you know of many other similar positions that are open? Think of how you could communicate your position to the hiring manager. GUIDELINE Step One: Show you’re consistent and valuable If you are interviewing with other organizations in the same industry, say something like: “I am in interview stages at several organizations within the industry. I’d like to choose a position where I’ll bring experience and skills to the organization.” If you are interviewing with other organizations in different industries, say something like: “I am interviewing at different mid-sized companies. For all these positions, a focus is on customer service.” If you are close to accepting an offer from another organization, say something like: “I am in a serious stage with one other company and expecting an offer soon.” If you are only interviewing with one organization, say something like: “I am in the early interview stages with one company and am interested in jobs that involve customer service.” ACTIVITIES Which of the above examples applies to you? What interests you about the position you are applying for? If applicable, can you identify a common theme in the jobs you are pursuing? GUIDELINE Step Two: Describe your decision factors In your response, be sure to describe what factors you would use to make a decision about a position. For example, you could say something like: “I am eager to accept a position where I could use my customer service skills to help improve the organization. I look forward to being a part of an organization that is dedicated to the customer. Your company’s mission of providing a great customer experience is exciting to me.” ACTIVITIES What values do you look for in an organization? What skills are you excited about using? How can you apply your response to the position you are applying for? GUIDELINE Step Three: Describe why this position is a top choice for you A hiring manager wants to know that you are interested and excited about the job opening. Your response should include what you appreciate about the position, so say something like: “From what I’ve learned about this job, I appreciate that I can add value right away. I have experience in providing great customer service and am excited about bringing the same level of excellence at this organization.” ACTIVITIES What is something you appreciate about the position you are applying for? Consider how you can show your excitement for the position. How do your past experiences connect to this position? GUIDELINE Be careful of what details you share When you answer the question, “What other companies are you interviewing with?” you do not have to share all your details. Sometimes, companies keep their offers secret. Be sure to respect that and communicate that to the hiring manager if needed. If you do decide to share important details, be smart about how you share. However, remember, the hiring manager cannot force you to share. Be sure to stay respectful and professional. WHAT IS A TIME YOU EXERCISED LEADERSHIP? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… With the question, “What is a time you exercised leadership?” the hiring manager wants to know what leadership qualities you see as important. They also want to hear about your leadership experiences you have had and whether you would be a good fit for their company. ACTIVITIES What leadership qualities do you highly value? What leadership qualities do you have? What examples can you think of when you’ve shown leadership? GUIDELINE Points to Emphasize In your response, highlight your positive traits by following these tips: Talk about what abilities you have that make you a good leader. Show how you are a good team builder. Support what you say with leadership experiences. Describe why you think you are a good leader. ACTIVITIES What leadership abilities do you have? How do you help build teams? What experiences could you share to support what you say? GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid Avoid these mistakes in your response: Do not talk poorly about others. Do not tell negative examples. Do not use examples of when you have needed to lead because someone else failed. Do not confuse managerial qualities with leadership qualities. ACTIVITIES Do any of your examples sound negative? Are any of your examples as a result of someone else failing? Review your leadership qualities you want to emphasize. GUIDELINE Sample Answer Here’s an example to the question, “What is a time when you exercised leadership?” I’ve always been drawn to leadership roles. I can help people find what they are skilled at. For example, during a crisis at work, I stepped up and coordinated roles for others on my team. As a result, all our work was completed and our sales maintained on a steady growth. HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH STRESSFUL SITUATIONS? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… Hiring managers use job interviews to get to know who a candidate is, what their strengths are, and, perhaps most importantly; how they will perform in the environment and role at hand. One common interview question that may help them figure this out is “How do you work under pressure?” Interviews themselves are high-pressure situations, and your words and actions throughout the interview may have already told them what they need to know. However, you will still want to have a strong, impressive response ready to go. Here are a few do’s and don’ts for answering the common (but tricky) “How do you work under pressure?” question: ACTIVITIES Talk briefly abouta situation that you have been under intense pressure How did you overcome it? Think about how you felt in the moment when you were stressed, and how you felt afterwards. Decide on the pressure situation that you feel best relates to the job you are applying for, and practice telling the story GUIDELINE Don’t give the short, easy answer The first thing you should know is that while the interviewer ultimately wants to figure out whether you’re the type who’ll fold or thrive in a stressful situation— they also want to hear about your process. When asked, “How do you work under pressure?” you should not just say, “Oh, pressure doesn’t get to me! I deal with it well.” Instead, offer a specific example of an instance in which you had to work under pressure, and explain the strategies you employed to successfully get through it. Essentially, you want to show, rather than tell, how you handle pressure at work. But remember this: When giving examples, try to focus on situations in which you were under pressure from outside forces rather than your own doing. And don’t talk about a time where you felt pressured and ultimately didn’t succeed! Don’t freeze up As mentioned earlier, how you act and what you say during the interview may tell the interviewer what they need to know about how you handle high-pressure situations. So, it’s important to stay cool, calm, and collected during the interview, especially while answering this question. Don’t let the pressure of a tough interview question get the best of you! Freezing up when the topic of “how you handle pressure” is raised when you’re attempting to communicate otherwise will reflect poorly on you. The interviewer may start to question how honest your other responses have been if they have reason to believe that you are lying your way through this question. Do your best to let your actions prove what you are claiming. ACTIVITIES Think of three positive outcomes you have gained from being under pressure. What have you learned from intensive situations? How has it made you a better person professionally and personally? Rehearse your answer so you can answer confidently and not freeze up! GUIDELINE Always be honest Don’t just tell the hiring manager what you think he or she wants to hear. Most interviewers will pick up on that and it likely will not bode well for you. Instead, figure out a way to focus on the positives. For example, if you actually don’t deal well with pressure, explain how you’re working on this issue. They’ll appreciate the honestly and your willingness to acknowledge a weakness or area in need of improvement. And if the truth is that you do thrive under pressure, you still won’t want to say that you “never get stressed at all.” This simply is not a believable answer because everyone feels pressured at times. Discuss your “relationship” with pressure Other things to touch on when responding to this question are your relationship with high pressure situations, and how you view them. This will help give the hiring manager a better idea of your personality, attitude, and story. For instance, if you think of pressure as a form of motivation rather than an obstacle, tell them! They’ll likely be very happy to hear it, and it’ll show that you have a positive outlook and the confidence and drive to work through tough situations. Again, offer specific examples of scenarios in which pressure helped you achieve success. As far as your relationship to pressure goes, discuss your history with stress, and the progress that you’ve made in overcoming it. For example, if back in high school you didn’t perform well under pressure but you do now, explain how and when you turned that corner. Hiring managers like to hear about your journey, and this is a great opportunity to walk them through at least part of it. ACTIVITIES Do you feel that pressure situations are an asset or an obstacle for you? Does encountering them make you work better or worse? How has your relationship to pressure changed in the last 10 years? How will your relationship to pressure be an asset for this company? GUIDELINE Sample Answer Here are a few great sample answers to the “How do you work under pressure?” question. Use these sample answers to get ideas on how to prep an answer of your own. “I actually find that I do my best work when under pressure. I enjoy undertaking challenging assignments and finding creative solutions. One time I had two projects that were due the same week. Instead of stressing out, I created a detailed schedule that allowed me to complete both assignments on time.” “Pressure hasn’t always been my friend, to be honest, but I know it’s part of work and life, and I’ve actually figured out ways to not only deal with it, but use it as motivation rather than an excuse for throwing in the towel. Some of the effective tactics I’ve started using are A, B, and C. I’ve really noticed a great deal of improvement in how I work under pressure, and I’m now able to maintain a more positive attitude when stressful situations arise!” “I tend to thrive under pressure because it forces me to really focus on what I’m doing, assess my priorities, and come up with a plan. Rather than quickly reacting, I try to stop and collect my thoughts, remain calm, and envision a positive outcome. For instance, in my last job, my boss told me I had 24 hours to create a presentation that I’d have to present to our CEO. I could have easily panicked—or jumped right in without taking the time to really think my plan through, which would have caused me to panic later! But instead, I took a few hours to clear my mind and came up with a plan of attack. The next day, I presented to our CEO and felt great about the work I had done, which allowed me to remain calm during the presentation. It’s certainly not always easy to perform well under pressure, but I’m happy to say I’ve found what works for me!” WHAT ARE YOUR SALARY REQUIREMENTS? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… Although most of the questions brought up in a job interview are asked to see if you would work well within the company climate, some practical questions may be asked as well such as: “What salary are you seeking” The amount of money you will be making is obviously important. The employer knows that you want a fair salary that will compensate you well for the work you will be doing. However, this question is asked specifically to verify a couple things. First, the interviewer wants to see that you are actually interested in the work you will be doing. Second, the interviewer wants to make sure that the amount of money you are seeking is not out of range for what they are willing to pay. ACTIVITIES What is your target salary? Make sure to have a range in mind (ex. $60,000-$80,000) Consider the salary at your current position. Think of the way you would justify it to your current boss (ex. tasks that you complete, strengths you bring to the job) How would you translate this skill set to a different position? Why should you earn your target salary? GUIDELINE Points to Emphasize There are various ways to answer this question to prove that you would be an asset to the organization regardless of how much you are getting paid. Give a salary range as opposed to a single figure Do research beforehand to know what other people in this position are making Reiterate your desire to work with this company and this line of work Sidestep the question if it is asked too early in an interview You want to give a salary that is indicative of your skills and experiences, but giving a salary estimate that is too high could put you out of the running for the job. ACTIVITIES Is your salary expectation reasonablefor the company? Why or why not? Figure out what the industry standard is for similar roles. How would you rise above and beyond the standard? Demonstrate the thought that you have put into your salary target by referencing your industry research, reasoning, and qualifications GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid This question has a tendency to trip up many interviewees, so avoid making these common errors. Do not give a salary that is too high or too low Avoid saying that money is not important to you (the interviewer will know you are lying) Do not bring up salary and benefits unless the interviewer mentions them first Do not make it seem like the salary you are asking for is ironclad It is important to appear flexible in a job interview, so when discussing salary, mention that you are willing to negotiate your exact salary if offered the position. ACTIVITIES Give two reasons why you have arrived at your particular salary range. Why should employers take you seriously? Ask yourself beforehand how much you are prepared to negotiate. How would you phrase this? For when the question of salary is raised, practice how you will bring the question back to you, and the reasons that you are uniquely qualified for the job. Practice your answer! GUIDELINE Sample Answer Talking about salary can be tricky in an interview, so frame your answer like this: “I am looking for a salary between $60,000 and $70,000 a year. However, I am flexible, and I would be willing to talk about salary in more detail if offered the position. More than anything, I’m really invested in this line of work and would love to work with this company.” You should use the interview to talk about how qualified you are for the position, and if you are the best person for the job, an employer should be more than willing to give you a fair salary. WHAT DO YOU LIKE TO DO OUTSIDE OF WORK? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… “What are your hobbies?” is an interview question that can provide insight into how you will fit in with other members of the team; it can also provide insight into your personal priorities. Another purpose of this question, however, may be to gauge how you would react to the unexpected. Interviewers often ask questions which seem out of left-field (questions like “what are your hobbies?”) in order to evaluate your ability to think on your feet when a conversation takes an unexpected turn. The answer you provide, and the manner in which you provide it, will typically provide a peek into your personality and how you handle stress. As with a more typical interview question (and resume and cover letter writing, too), candor and confidence are your tickets to success when answering “What are your hobbies?” ACTIVITIES What is the interviewer trying to find out with this question? How could details about your hobbies reveal insight into how you would work as an employee? GUIDELINE The Best Approach Take it in stride - treat this like any other question that you might expect to hear in an interview. Be comfortable - You’re just talking about the things you enjoy doing, so speak along the lines of casual conversation. Mentioning hobbies that relate to your work can be helpful - (for example, tell them about your love of golf and baseball if you’re applying to work in a sporting goods store). Keep it professional - Stay focused on the types of hobbies which would be appropriate to talk about if you were an actual employee. Be consistent with what you are sharing/listing on social media - because there’s a good chance your Facebook and LinkedIn accounts have been reviewed by the interviewers. Understand that the hobby you mention as a job candidate will be remembered when you are an employee - In fact, it could be mentioned in a company-wide email that introduces you, so be prepared to discuss it later. Have a little fun and show a bit of personality - with questions like these it’s a great way to put your confidence on display. ACTIVITIES Think about your hobbies; what are three things that you like to do in your spare time. Think about the qualities you are trying to convey in this interview. Do you want to appear committed, ambitious, a team player? Match each hobby to one of the professional qualities that you are trying to convey. How does each hobby reflect the chosen quality? GUIDELINE Preparation A hobby is something you enjoy doing in your leisure time. If a hobby doesn’t immediately spring to mind when you’re fielding this question, take some time to consider things you do in your spare time that could qualify as a hobby. Answer the question in a manner similar to this one: “What do you do in your spare time?” And here’s some additional info on what constitutes a hobby: Something that relaxes you, or brings you pleasure. Something you do for fun on a frequent basis. Something you would do more often if you had more time for it! Watching TV and searching the Internet are not hobbies, unless, for example: You watch cooking shows and scour the Internet for recipes in order to up your chef game—this could translate to cooking being your hobby. You watch Antiques Road Show, check out consignment stores for unique knick-knacks and artwork, and buy and sell vintage goods on eBay. This could translate to antiquing or thrifting being your hobby. Volunteering, taking classes, and simply reading books are often unrecognized hobbies. Keep that in mind! Don’t worry if you can’t directly connect your hobbies to the job or industry. Your hobbies can demonstrate other skills or strengths that an interviewer might find interesting, unique, or even humorous. But do try to connect your hobbies to the job or industry, if possible—doing so sends a strong indication of the depth of your interest in the field. ACTIVITIES Do your chosen hobbies reflect a wide array of interests? Try to have one hobby from different areas (i.e. a volunteer position, an indoor activity, an outdoor activity). This can help you appear more well rounded. Why is it important to portray yourself as having a variety of interests? What are three ways that your hobbies provide a reflection of your professional goals? GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid Make sure your filter is in place when discussing your personal life. Be forthright but keep yourself in check. Telling an interviewer you have no hobbies can make you appear reluctant to talk about yourself. Talk family, pets, community, leisure activities, club and association memberships, etc. Definitely do not decline to answer the question! Avoid discussing hobbies that might paint you in a negative or irresponsible light, like gambling. Do not trap yourself by trying to relate your answer solely to work—be honest and share a bit about yourself. Do not appear frazzled or confused by the question. Expected the unexpected in any job interview. While this question is not an everyday one, it is also rather light. Relax and have some fun when answering! Do not create a non-existent hobby. If you land the job, your hobbies (or lack of) may become visible, and no one likes a liar. Avoid sharing too much information. This is not a question that requires a 10- minute answer. If follow-up questions are asked, answer them, but try not to go on and on forever. You don’t need to provide a full biography—just enough to show your interviewer that you’re a real person with real interests, and that you’re at ease when it comes to thinking on your feet. ACTIVITIES Write a sample answer of your list of hobbies. Review it with if necessary. Write how these hobbies make you stand out from others. What are the obstacles you think may arise when answering this question? Write the steps you will take to prevent this mistake from occurring. GUIDELINE Sample Answer The following answers to the question “what are your hobbies?” come from completely different directions and provide you with an idea of how to structure your answer to this question. But each answer reflects an actual hobby. Going to the beach or the park with your family can qualify as a hobby, as this example displays an acceptable approach: “Work and family accounts for a lot of my time, but on the weekends, we like to get out and enjoy nature. We take the kids camping at least four times a year and try to get out to the beach or the park every weekend. It’s a good way us to refresh and reset before tackling the work week, and a great way to get exercise.” This response maintains a focus on work and family while providing an honest and thorough answer to the actual question. Perhaps reading is your hobby. Then, you might explain it like this: “I love reading mystery novels. I got hooked on the genre through Miss Marple and Sherlock on PBS, but almost fully transitioned to books after discovering how quickly I turn pages when actually reading mysteries. I’m so immersed that I’m actually considering taking a writing class so I can write my own.” This is something you do all by yourself, but it is a hobby when you do it repeatedly, and for pleasure and intellectual stimulation. Perhaps you’re an animal lover who enjoys working with dogs. “I love animals and helping people. A couple of years ago I adopted a labradoodle named Billie, and began visiting an elderly shut-in neighbor with her. My neighbor loved her, and it was clear from the start how much joy she brought him. This gave me the idea of devoting some time each week to training therapy dogs at my local shelter. I’m now a certified dog trainer, and currently spend four hours every weekend training therapy dogs. I also occasionally get to take them to local nursing homes for resident visits.” Hopefully this article has provided you with great insight into how to answer the interview question “What are your hobbies?” For guidance on additional questions, check out the resources below. WHAT MAKES YOU UNCOMFORTABLE? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… When in an interview, it is important that you know what is actually being asked. Many questions have hidden meaning, but if you are able to recognize what they are getting at, your answer will be even more impressive. Being asked what makes you uncomfortable is one of the most difficult questions to deal with. You walk a thin line between not answering the question and hurting your chances of being hired. The interviewer wants to know what could potentially affect your performance. This means it is okay to admit that certain things make you uncomfortable, while emphasizing how you are able to function despite discomfort. ACTIVITIES Review the job description and think about which tasks will make you feel most comfortable. Which tasks will make you feel the most uncomfortable? Are there any discomforts you have that may cast you as unfit for the job? (ex. if the position requires leading others, it may not be a good idea to highlight your fear of public speaking) GUIDELINE Points to Emphasize It is difficult to tackle this question, but if you choose your words carefully, you can appear as a very calm and reasonable person. Be honest. Denying that anything makes you uncomfortable only makes it seem like you are dodging the question. Be sensitive. It is okay to admit that certain things make you uncomfortable, but you should portray yourself as open-minded and considerate of others’ situations. Be confident. After answering the question, confirm that being uncomfortable never interferes with your work. Be reasonable. There are reasonable things to be uncomfortable about, and there are unreasonable things to be uncomfortable about. ACTIVITIES Think about a time when you have felt uncomfortable in the past. How were you able to overcome this feeling? Write down three concrete steps you took to do this. Try to turn the conversation around into how something you are made uncomfortable by is actually an asset. GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid There are many pitfalls you can fall into, especially for this question. The aspects you should avoid are more important than the points you should emphasize. Do not get upset. If a story or example clearly affects you emotionally, the interviewer will question whether you are able to work with discomforts. Avoid complete denial. It is best to admit that something makes you uncomfortable, even if it is a minor annoyance. Do not go on too long. The interviewer will be concerned if the list of uncomfortable things is too long. Do not be too serious. Having a good humor about what makes you uncomfortable instills confidence that you will perform well in the workplace. Always try to remain positive and collected. Remember, they are not looking for someone completely unaffected by their surroundings. They want someone that has a healthy relationship with their situation. ACTIVITIES What is one way you could answer this question in a humorous way? Write down three techniques you use to avoid becoming uncomfortable. How will these techniques improve the workplace? GUIDELINE Sample Answer A reasonable response to the question will be similar to this: “At my previous job, several employees seemed like they worked different amounts. It was a little uncomfortable to see one person work weekends, while another coworker was leaving early most days. It never interfered with my work, but it was slightly concerning. A manager finally addressed it, so it did not have any long-term consequences.” HOW DO YOU EVALUATE SUCCESS? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… Think deeper about what the interview question you are asked really means. There is usually some hidden meaning that they are trying to get to. If you are able to understand this hidden meaning, your answer can focus on it specifically, which strengthens your answer. The question, “How do you determine or evaluate success?” has some hidden meaning. You should not focus so much on your definition of success, but rather how this definition shapes your work ethic. The interviewer is interested in what qualities will allow you to succeed. They want to be confident that you are self-motivated and dedicated to your work. ACTIVITIES What do you think ‘evaluating success means’? Think of three ways that you evaluate your own success. Think of three ways that you evaluate the success of others. Do these lists differ from each other? In which way? GUIDELINE Points to Emphasize Figure out which qualities they are trying to find in you and focus on them. These may vary with the specific job, but they should be, more or less, consistent. Even though you are focusing on your attributes, remember to answer the question. Start by defining success. You should probably include going above expectations in your answer. This is the most common goal for this question. Do you consider yourself successful when you meet the minimum expectations, or when you do the job right? If you are interviewing for a management position, their expectations for your answer may be different. Instead, you might focus on what your expectations for employees under you are. Be confident, without being prideful. ACTIVITIES Consider the job that you are applying for. What kinds of ‘success’ might you encounter in this job? (ex. successfully completing a task, or successfully problem solving) How have you demonstrated success in these areas? How would apply this to the potential job? GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid If you follow the above points to emphasize, and avoid the following pitfalls, your answer should be very strong. Do not spend the entire answer determining success. Even though that is what they literally asked you, you should move on to explaining your positive qualities. Do not lose your focus. Success is a vague idea, but you should choose one or two attributes that are relevant. Including too many weakens the strength of all of them. You should avoid talking about how you are completely successful. No matter how capable you are, being able to improve will be appealing to employers. A genuine and sincere undertone will be very effective. Do not exaggerate or stretch the truth. ACTIVITIES What are those one or two ways in which you determine success? How do you think they best determine success? Bring the focus back to you if possible; how do you think that you have lived up to your own expectations of success? GUIDELINE Sample Answer The context of the question you are asked may require other specifics that are not covered here. Be sure to adjust your answer to the job you are applying for. Generally, however, your answer might look something like this: “I determine success as getting the job done properly. Even if the expectations are lower, I will not consider myself successful unless I met all of my own personal requirements. Of course, I’m always trying to push my personal requirements higher and higher. I welcome opportunities to improve.” GIVE ME AN EXAMPLE OF A TIME YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG. HOW DID YOU HANDLE IT? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… An interview is supposed to be a time where you are trying to talk yourself up, which is why it can be difficult to answer something like: “Give me an example of a time you did something wrong. How did you handle it?” Questions like this tend to trip people up because they get caught up with the first sentence. The actual question is, “How did you handle it” The interviewer wants to know how you respond to adversity. Hiring managers want to know that if something goes wrong, you will be able to remain calm and handle it efficiently. ACTIVITIES Why do you think an employer would ask this question? What are things that an employer might be looking for in an answer? GUIDELINE Points to Emphasize You should remain positive for every question of an interview, even if you are talking about a time where things did not go smoothly. Admit that you did something wrong, being humble can work to your advantage Discuss how you handled the situation Discuss what you learned from the experience Remain positive It is not always easy to admit that you messed up, especially when you are trying to impress a potential employer. However, managers know that you are only human and that people make mistakes so do not be afraid to talk about a previous shortcoming. ACTIVITIES Think of a few times that you have made mistakes in the past. Pick one or two instances that you think would be appropriate to tell in an interview Why do you think these would be interesting for a potential boss to hear? GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid Talking about past mistakes can get tricky, so watch out for these common pitfalls. Avoid saying that you have never done anything wrong Do not get caught up in overly explaining what went wrong Do not be vague with the situation that happened Do not forget to talk about how you are a better employee now because of it Chances are that you will make a mistake no matter what job you are getting. The important thing is that you are able to learn from your errors and become a better worker in the process. ACTIVITIES What did you learn from the mistakes that you made in the past? How has it made you a better employee? How will the lessons you learned from past mistakes aid you in your new position? How would it help you prevent future mistakes? GUIDELINE Sample Answer A good response to a question about your past mistakes should go something like this: “One time my boss came up to me and asked why he wasn’t receiving emails from certain clients. At first, I explained to him that I did not know and that I had not heard from the clients either. A couple days after that I checked the junk folder in my email and saw all these emails that should’ve been going to my boss. I quickly sent them over and told my boss what happened. He had a good laugh and ever since, I’ve made sure that I checked all my folders.” Answering this question confidently is vital. You should be able to own up to your mistakes and learn a new skill through it. HOW DID YOU HEAR ABOUT THE POSITION? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… In asking this question, interviewers are judging if you are an active or passive job seekers. Those who appear eager for the position may be perceived as more willing to put forth the needed effort to fulfill the position. Considering this, you want to be strategic in the way you answer this question. ACTIVITIES Why do you think this is important for interviewers to know? How did you hear about this job? Think about how you could frame this answer to put you in the best possible light. GUIDELINE Points to Emphasize Depending upon how you heard about the position, there are different ways that you can answer the question. Still, there are certain points to mention that can help you to properly answer such type of inquiry. Clearly state the source from which you heard of the position, but do not go into elaborate detail, other than the name of the individual, company or resource. Explain what aspects drew you to the position. Briefly state why you feel qualified for the job. Express your excitement about the possibility of obtaining the position. ACTIVITIES Think about the emotions you had when you initially saw the job posting. If it made you genuinely excited or happy, tell the employer! Write down three reasons you feel qualified for the job. Write down three things that drew you to this job. GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid Review these mistakes to avoid when answering this question. Even if you heard about the position from an employee, do not go into great detail about your relationship with that employee. Do not give vague one word answers. If you do not recall what job board you found the position through, do not dwell on that fact or make something up. If you heard of a job from an employee who is on rocky terms with the company or recently departed on negative terms, do not mention their name. ACTIVITIES Try to establish a personal connection with the job (although not too personal). Is this company a place that you have had your eye on for a long time? Has working here been a long term goal? GUIDELINE Sample Answer One way to properly answer inquiries about how you heard about the position might be: “I heard about this position through a current employee, Jane Doe. She was a previous co-worker of mine at XYZ Company where I served as a project manager. After reviewing the position and researching the company, I felt qualified to fulfill the position and excited about the possibility of joining such a reputable company.” Remember, the question is asking more than just who sent you. Make sure that you address why you applied to the position and how you qualify. Addressing these things can help to avoid certain additional questions and possibly help you to secure the position.WHAT MOTIVATES YOU? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… Even the simplest interview questions usually have some hidden meaning behind them. The information the interviewer is trying to uncover is not always apparent, but if you are able to recognize what they are really asking, your answers will benefit you in the interview. There are few questions simpler than, “What motivates you?”. Yet this deceptively simple question has some hidden meaning. The specifics of how you are motivated are not important; the interviewer is interested in whether you are able to motivate yourself. They want to make sure that you will be able to work without a manager’s supervision if you are hired. ACTIVITIES Why is there a distinction between how you are motivated, and if you can motivate yourself? Why does an employer care about this? Think of a time when you have been particularly motivated in the past. What led you to be so motivated? GUIDELINE Points to Emphasize Because the specifics are less important, there are many ways to answer this question. The following points should help you nail down what really matters. Communicate that you are self-motivated. It is important that you are able to perform on your own. It is beneficial to the company if managers do not have to make an effort to motivate the employees. Be honest and sincere. Think about what actually motivates you. There are many acceptable answers, as long as it translates to hard work, but you should never make something up. Be specific. Do not just say you are self-motivated. You should point to success, satisfaction, or some other specific aspect as your source of motivation. Be optimistic. A positive attitude creates a good impression. ACTIVITIES What strategies have you used to motivate yourself in the past? Why are these strategies effective, and how would you bring them with you into this new work environment? How do help motivate those around you? GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid You should choose your words carefully to avoid the interviewer thinking you are not motivated to work with them. Avoid these common mistakes. Do not rush. Not giving your answer enough time makes it seem like you are not motivated. Do not embellish your answer. It is not expected that you are totally motivated 100% of the time. You should just be able to always do your job properly. You should not get your motivation from others. It is best if an employee can be responsible for their own motivation. Do not choose your personal goals as your source of motivation, unless these goals are to communicate that you will work hard. It may be acceptable if your motivation comes from advancing in the company. ACTIVITIES Decide on one or two points to explain how you motivate yourself, and how you have used this skill effectively in the past Would you consider motivation a particular skill? If so, highlight it. GUIDELINE Sample Answer Your answer should incorporate specifics to the job you are applying for, but it may resemble this example. “I am able to motivate myself. Instead of relying on managers or other superiors to encourage me, I find that achieving success drives me forward. The satisfaction I get from doing a job better than anyone around me keeps my work at a high level and my morale high, as well.” DESCRIBE A DIFFICULT WORK SITUATION OR PROJECT AND HOW YOU OVERCAME IT? GUIDELINE What the Hiring Manager Is Really Asking… This is actually one of the better interview questions asked, both for the interviewee and the interviewer, and there are a couple of reasons why: It’s a solid, basic, open-ended question that an interviewer can ask any candidate. When asked properly, the question can surprise candidates, as opposed to other questions which are easier to anticipate and prepare answers for. It allows the interviewer to get a handle on how a candidate responds in a situation that doesn’t have a clear, easy, yes-or-no answer. When an interviewer gets a handle on this, they then know how a candidate will most likely respond to unforeseen challenges and difficult situations in the role they are interviewing for. ACTIVITIES Why do you think it’s beneficial to talk about something that gave you trouble in an interview? What do you think the interviewer is looking for in this question? GUIDELINE The Best Way to Respond One straightforward way to respond to interview questions about difficult situations at work is to use the STAR technique. Situation/Task: Describe the challenging situation/task that you needed to deal with. Action: What action(s) did you take to remedy things? Be specific. Results: What were the results of your action(s)? What would have happened if you hadn’t reacted that way? While following this simple formula, you’ll also want to focus on aspects related to your reasoning, integrity, or initiative, or your ability to reach out to superiors when you don’t know the answer. For example: Talking about an ethical dilemma in which you chose to act with integrity. Discussing your initiative in tackling a difficult situation to a positive end. Discussing how you worked through a dilemma and found a solution. ACTIVITIES What are the benefits of answering this question with the STAR technique? Think of a few instances where you handled a difficult situation Write a response for this using STAR GUIDELINE Mistakes You Should Avoid If you have not thought this question through ahead of time (and you really should), there is a good chance that you may not be able to think of something off the top of your head. Here are some things to avoid speaking about when answering this question. Do not speak poorly of former or current companies or co-workers. Do not be self-focused to the point of discussing yourself in a superior light. Avoid discussing your own shortcomings . . . unless you also mention your growth. Do not choose a situation that is not job-related unless you have no work experience. Your potential employer wants to know that you can effectively work through a difficult situation on the job, so be sure to avoid a self-deprecating attitude. While people love self-deprecating humor in real life, the short time span of a job interview really is not the time for it. Take the question seriously, and answer it seriously. If the interviewer asks about a situation you have never had to deal with, it is okay to say so, but they can then easily change the question to “How WOULD you deal with a difficult situation like that?” In other words, they can switch from the historical to the hypothetical, which makes the question a lot harder all of a sudden. With that in mind, the best follow-up response would be to say “That’s never happened to me, but if that kind of situation did come up, here’s how I would handle it . . . .” And from there, you apply the STAR technique. ACTIVITIES How did handling that situation make you a better employee? Was there anything you felt that you could have improved upon? What steps have you taken to do so? How does the way you handle difficult situations make you uniquely qualified for this job? GUIDELINE Sample Answer “During a summer session I had a student who was writing rude, offensive notes on student papers during peer grading assignments. I arranged a meeting with the student, and had my principal attend too, as a witness. I calmly yet firmly informed the student that the types of comments she was providing were not helpful—that they were in fact detrimental. From there, the three of us had a fruitful discussion on the types of comments that work best on student papers. In the end,the student walked away with a solid understanding of how to provide constructive, non-offensive feedback to other students.” “Late one Friday afternoon at my last job, a client called with an urgent question about the project we were working on for them. My boss usually handles all client contact directly, but he had already left for the weekend. I explained the situation to the client, and said that although I might not know the exact answer to the question, that I was also working on the project and might be able to help. That was good enough for the client, and while it was true that I did not have the answer immediately, we were able to work through it together fairly quickly, and the client got off the call assured that they wouldn’t need to worry about the issue over the weekend. I also left a note for my boss about the call, so that he could check with the client on his return on Monday morning.”