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SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 29, 2024
...NOT IN THISDAY STYLE? THEN YOU’RE NOT IN STYLE 
A LEADER IN HOSPITALITY 
AND PHILANTHROPY
DUPE OLUSOLA
A LEADER IN HOSPITALITY 
AND PHILANTHROPY
Society 
#MESSWITHLANCÔME LAGOS EVENT
Lancôme’s bold #MessWithLancôme campaign recently was officially 
launched in Lagos, with a vibrant event that hosted beauty influencers 
and makeup lovers to experiment with bold, messy makeup looks in 
line with the campaign’s “no rules” approach. 
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Earlier this week, while scrolling through social media, a 
post caught my eye—a 4th Quarter Kick-Off schedule. 
I stared at it for a while, letting the reality sink in: we 
have less than a hundred days left in the year. Mixed 
feelings? Definitely. It’s been a whirlwind of a year, but 
looking back, I realize I’m living answers to prayers I made last 
year. That realization alone makes me appreciate the journey 
more, no matter how crazy the ride has been.
As we step into the last quarter, my wish for you is simple: may 
this quarter be your best yet. May you break through the barriers 
holding you back and chase your dreams with renewed zeal. 
Sure, the odds might seem stacked against you, and things may 
not be perfect, but that doesn’t mean you can’t make a power-
ful decision to change the narrative. This quarter is your chance 
to dig deep and make magic happen, regardless of the circum-
stances.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this: if you don’t like 
something and you truly believe there’s a better way, then bet 
on yourself. Be brave enough to create a seismic shift that could 
change the game forever. Too often, we think change is out of 
our reach because the stakes are high or because it’s “always 
been done this way.” But let’s challenge that mindset! It’s the 4th 
quarter, and there’s no better time to rewrite the rules.
Talking about changing the game, we have an exciting line-up 
of articles this week, starting with a piece that’s close to my 
heart: 40 Things Every Woman in Her 40s Should Know. It’s the 
kind of list that makes you pause, smile, and nod in agreement 
because, yes, it’s THAT relatable. Even if you’re still in your 20s or 
30s, consider it a prequel to your future self—a little gift wrapped 
in wisdom and foresight. My personal favorites? “The past can’t 
be changed, but the future is wide open” and “You’re allowed 
to change your mind, your goals, and even the people you keep 
around.”
For our older readers—what are the rules that have shaped 
the woman you are today? I’d love to hear from you! Share your 
thoughts, quotes, and mantras on Instagram and tag @this-
daystyle. Let’s create a ripple of inspiration and learn from each 
other’s journeys. I can’t wait to read, learn, and grow from your 
insights!
Now, let’s talk about something that’s had everyone buzzing 
lately—Aso Ebi. Yep, that good ol’ question: “To buy or not to 
buy?” This piece digs deep into the Aso Ebi phenomenon—how 
almost every woman in Lagos (or at least every woman I know) 
has a closet filled with Aso Ebi fabrics that will likely never see 
the light of day again. It’s almost as if they become mementos of 
occasions, taking up space yet too meaningful to discard.
The question is, can Aso Ebi culture ever be stopped? It’s a 
tough one. For some, being left out of an Aso Ebi selection feels 
like being left out of the celebration entirely. Yes, it’s that serious. 
But can we find a middle ground? The article offers a few poten-
tial solutions, from choosing more practical fabrics to reducing 
the frequency of purchases. Maybe we can strike a balance 
between tradition and practicality? Who knows? Read the piece 
and let’s figure it out together.
There’s a lot more to explore on our website. From thought-
provoking opinion pieces to style guides and everything in 
between, we’ve got your weekend reading sorted. Spend your 
afternoon diving into these gems on www.thisdaystyle.ng. Trust 
me, you’ll be glad you did!
So, here’s a toast to the last quarter of the year—may it be 
filled with moments that make your heart race, challenges that 
make you grow, and victories that leave you smiling at the end.
Love ,
Konye
The Last Leg 
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Dupe Olusola is a suc-
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25 years of experience 
in various sectors. She 
is known for her exper-
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finance, and corporate 
market economics She 
is the current t Managing 
Director/CEO of Trans-
corp Hotels Plc, which 
owns the Transcorp Hil-
ton Abuja and the online 
booking platform, Aura 
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195 Styling Tips To Incorporate If 
You Are A Men Less Than 5.7”
Six Things to Remember About 
Smart Money Woman
4 Reasons To Practice Gratitude
40 Things Every Woman In Her 
40s Should Know
Must-Try Relaxing Activities In 
Lagos: A Guide To Unwinding In 
The Hustle And Bustle
Aso-Ebi: To Buy Or Not To Buy?
Ditch Those Oversized Sunglasses; 
It’s All About The Small Sunglasses
Movie Review: A Look At “Blackmail”
10 Signs It’s Time To Add Retinol 
To Your Routine
Lancôme’s bold #MessWithLancôme 
campaign recently was officially 
launched in Lagos, with a vibrant 
event that hosted beauty influenc-
ers and makeup lovers to experiment 
with bold, messy makeup looks in line with the 
campaign’s “no rules” approach. Held at Jewel 
Aieda in Lekki, the event opened with a speech 
from Joe Zakour, Lancôme Marketing Manager, 
who set the tone by diving into the heart of the 
#MessWithLancôme campaign. He highlighted 
the importance of self-expression and creativity, 
encouraging everyone to experiment with bold, 
imperfect, and unpredictable looks—an attitude 
that aligns perfectly with Lancôme’s celebration 
of individuality. Guests enjoyed a range of interac-
tive activities that captured the campaign’s playful 
spirit. A key highlight was the “Mess-terclass,” led 
by makeup artist Anita Adeoye, where attendees 
used Lancôme products to create daring, messy 
looks. Beyond the makeup stations that allowed 
attendees to experiment with products, the 
venue was filled with interactive zones to keep 
the energy high. Guests were fully immersed in 
the Lancôme experience, with every detail and 
interaction thoughtfully designed to reflect the es-
sence of the #MessWithLancôme campaign.
#MessWithLancôme 
Lagos Event 
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Turning 40 can feel like a milestone, but it’s 
not just about counting years — it’s about 
accumulating wisdom, shedding unnecessary 
baggage, and, let’s be honest, embracing the 
freedom of saying “no” without guilt. If you’re 
here, welcome to the most empowering decade 
yet. Here are 40 things every woman in her 
forties should know:
THINGS EVERY 
WOMAN IN HER 
40S SHOULD 
KNOW
1. You are not for everyone, and that’s 
okay.
At this point, youshould have zero patience 
for trying to please everyone. You’re a limited 
edition, not mass-produced, and that’s your 
superpower.
2. “Good girl, no dey pay” 
It’s the era of authenticity. Being too nice 
won’t get you ahead. Be kind, but don’t be 
afraid to say no or stand up for yourself.
3. Self-care is not selfish; it’s survival
Whether it’s a spa day or just 10 minutes of 
peace with a cup of tea, don’t let anyone guilt 
you for needing time to recharge.
4. Your energy is currency
If you’re not selective about where you 
spend it, you’ll find yourself emotionally 
bankrupt. Know your worth, then add tax.
5. Friendship dynamics will change, and 
that’s a good thing
People grow apart, and that’s normal. 
Celebrate the ones who’ve stayed, and don’t 
mourn the ones who drifted. Everyone has 
their season.
6. Your body is talking, so listen
Those little aches and tired days? They’re 
not random. Rest when your body asks for it, 
not when it’s forced to shut down.
7. Confidence looks different now
It’s less about stilettos and more about be-
ing comfortable in flats and your own skin.
8. Comparison is the thief of joy
That social media highlight reel is just that 
— highlights. Focus on your own journey. 
You’re doing better than you think.
9. It’s okay not to have all the answers
Even in your forties, life throws curveballs. 
The difference is that now you know how to 
handle the unknown with grace (and maybe a 
little wine).
10. Perfection is overrated
Perfectionism was cute in your 20s and 
exhausting in your 30s. In your 40s, it’s time 
to let it go. Flaws make you interesting.
11. Your voice has weight
Speak up. Your opinions are seasoned with 
life, experience, and wisdom.
 Don’t let anyone silence you.
12. Growth isn’t linear
There will still be setbacks and mistakes. 
The important part? You bounce back faster 
now because you’ve learned resilience.
13. Dress for yourself, not the trends
By now, you know what works for your 
body. Forget the latest fads and wear what 
makes you feel fabulous.
14. Real love starts with self-love
No relationship will fill the gaps you refuse 
to address within yourself.
Start by loving you first.
15. It’s okay to reinvent yourself
Who said you had to stick with the same 
career, style, or hobbies forever? Change is 
the only constant, so embrace it.
16. Boundaries are your best friend
You’ve earned the right to say, “I’m not 
available for this.” Guard your peace at all 
costs.
17. Life is short; eat the cake
You know what? Have the dessert. Enjoy 
the moment without the guilt trip that follows.
18. It’s never too late to start something 
new.
Whether learning a new language, picking 
up a hobby, or starting a side hustle — age 
is not a limitation.
19. Menopause doesn’t define you
You’re not “old” because your body is 
changing. You’re just evolving. It’s biology, 
not a death sentence.
20. Quality over quantity in relationships
It’s better to have two true friends than a 
dozen surface-level acquaintances. Choose 
depth over numbers.
21. Your happiness is your responsibility
No one else can give it to you. Cultivate 
joy in the small moments, and don’t wait for 
someone to hand it to you.
22. Healing is a lifelong process
There’s no rush to “get over” anything. Give 
yourself the grace to heal at your own pace.
23. It’s okay to outgrow people
Not everyone is meant to stay. Outgrow-
ing relationships doesn’t make you a bad 
person; it means you’re evolving.
24. Laughter really is the best medicine
In the face of life’s absurdities, a good 
sense of humour will carry you through 
tough times. Laugh loud, laugh often.
25. You don’t need permission to rest
Stop glorifying being busy. Rest is pro-
ductive. Burnout is not a badge of honour.
26. Adventure still awaits you
Your forties aren’t the end of the line — 
they’re a new beginning. Book that solo 
trip, skydive, and try something that scares 
you.
27. You can say goodbye to toxic family 
members
Blood isn’t thicker than peace. If some-
one consistently disrupts your well-being, 
it’s okay to love them from afar.
28. Your style is yours to define
Whether you live in yoga pants or de-
signer dresses, it’s your vibe. Own it. You’re 
stylish simply because you exist.
29. FOMO is a waste of time
You’re past the phase of needing to be 
everywhere or do everything. If you’re not 
feeling it, you’re not missing out.
30. Therapy is strength, not weakness.
Getting help to process life’s messiness 
shows courage, not failure. There’s no shame 
in unpacking your emotional baggage.
31. Grey hair can be a crown, not a curse
Embrace the natural changes. Whether 
you colour it or flaunt it, grey is just another 
shade of fabulous.
32. Your gut instinct is rarely wrong
You’ve honed this sixth sense over de-
cades. If something feels off, trust it.
33. Success looks different for everyone
There’s no one way to “have it all.” Your 
definition of success is personal and valid.
34. You are your greatest investment
From skincare to education, don’t be 
afraid to pour into yourself. The returns are 
always worth it.
35. The past can’t be changed, but the 
future is wide open
Stop replaying old mistakes. You can’t 
rewrite your past, but you hold the pen for 
your future.
36. Apologise less for who you are
By now, you’ve earned the right to take 
up space, to be loud, to be quiet — what-
ever you choose. You don’t owe the world 
constant apologies.
37. Jealousy is wasted energy
Your journey is unique. Other people’s suc-
cesses don’t diminish your own. Celebrate 
them while staying focused on your path.
38. It’s okay to let go of old dreams
Some dreams served their purpose in 
earlier seasons. Don’t be afraid to dream 
new ones that fit who you are now.
39. Sex can get better
It’s not over after 40. With the right part-
ner and communication, intimacy can be 
more fulfilling than ever.
40. You are more than enough
Not “despite” your age but because of it. 
You’re wiser, stronger, and more authenti-
cally you than ever before.
MONICA AWE ETUK
YOUR ENEGY IS YOUR CURRENCY
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4 REASONS 
TO PRACTICE 
GRATITUDE
It’s easy to get caught up in life’s 
challenges and forget the small 
moments of joy and blessings we 
experience daily. However, practising 
gratitude is one of the most powerful 
ways to shift your mindset, boost your 
emotional well-being, and improve your 
physical health. Whether you’re noting 
down what you’re thankful for in a 
journal or simply reflecting on life’s 
blessings, you’d be surprised just how 
much gratitude can transform your 
life. Here are four reasons why you 
should practice gratitude.
1. Improves Mental Health
Gratitude is proven to reduce feelings of 
stress, anxiety, and depression. Focusing 
on the positive aspects of our lives shifts 
our attention away from what’s lacking or 
going wrong. By consciously recognising 
the good, we rewire our brains to focus 
on the “small blessings” and joys of daily 
living. This simple mental shift can reduce 
symptoms of mental distress and promote 
a sense of calm and happiness. Studies 
have shown that those who practice grati-
tude regularly are more likely to experience 
higher levels of life satisfaction and lower 
levels of depression.
2. Enhances Relationships
Gratitude can significantly strengthen re-
lationships with family, friends, or partners. 
Expressing gratitude towards others helps 
deepen emotional bonds, creating a sense 
of appreciation and mutual respect. When 
you acknowledge and express thankfulness 
for the people in your life, they feel valued 
and more connected to you. Gratitude also 
encourages a culture of giving, as the more 
we appreciate others, the more likely we 
are to reciprocate acts of kindness, creating 
more robust and more meaningful relation-
ships.
3. Boosts Physical Health
While gratitude is often associated with 
mental well-being,its impact on physical 
health should not be underestimated. Re-
search shows that those who practice grati-
tude tend to take better care of their bodies, 
leading to healthier lifestyles. They are more 
By Bukola Amoboye
likely to exercise regularly, maintain bet-
ter sleep habits, and make healthier food 
choices. Gratitude also reduces the levels 
of stress hormones in the body, leading 
to lower blood pressure and a healthier 
immune system. The simple act of focus-
ing on the good can relieve you of physi-
cal weaknesses and ailments borne out of 
anxiety and stress.
4. Increases Resilience
Life is full of challenges, but gratitude 
helps build emotional resilience, allow-
ing you to navigate tough times better. 
When we practice gratitude, we develop a 
mindset more focused on hope and per-
severance. It rewires the brain to see the 
silver linings in difficult situations and to 
remain hopeful in the face of adversity. By 
focusing on what we have instead of what 
we lack, we become more optimistic and 
equipped to handle life’s ups and downs.
DITCH THOSE 
OVERSIZED 
SUNGLASSES; 
IT’S ALL ABOUT 
THE SMALL 
SUNGLASSES
By Funke Babs-Kufeji
Small sunglasses have taken 
the fashion world by storm, 
becoming a must-have accessory 
for anyone looking to elevate 
their style. From retro-inspired 
frames to modern, sleek designs, 
small sunglasses offer a unique 
and trendy look that can 
effortlessly enhance any outfit. 
 
When it comes to small sunglasses, 
there’s a style and shape to suit every 
taste and preference. Dive into the world 
of aviator, cat eye, round frames, and 
more, and explore the style perfect for 
you.
 
It’s essential to consider your face 
shape to ensure a flattering fit. Make 
sure to try as many as you can to 
determine which shape best suits your 
face.
 
The colour and finish of your small 
sunglasses can impact your overall 
look. So whether you opt for a classic 
black frame or a bold coloured one, make 
sure to pick the shade and finish that can 
enhance many outfits in your closet while 
still showing off your personality.
 
When it comes to small sunglasses, 
choosing the right lens tint can make 
all the difference. Whether you’re looking 
to block out glare, enhance contrast, or 
simply make a bold fashion statement, 
there’s a tint for every need.
 
UV protection is non-negotiable when 
it comes to small sunglasses. Look for 
lenses that offer 100% UV protection to 
shield your eyes from harmful rays and 
reduce the risk of eye damage. Whether 
you opt for polarised lenses or standard 
UV-coated ones, ensuring your small 
sunglasses provide adequate protection is 
essential for long-term eye health.
 
Small sunglasses are versatile 
accessories that can elevate any outfit. 
Pair them with a chic scarf, statement 
earrings, or a trendy bucket hat for a 
fashion-forward look. Experiment with 
different styles, from cat-eye to round 
frames, to find the perfect match for your 
personal style. Remember, confidence is 
the best accessory when rocking small 
sunglasses!
 
AKIN FAMINU
BURNA BOY
TOKE MAKINWA
MONALISA CHINDA
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To Stop or Not to Stop?
The question of whether Aso Ebi can be stopped 
is a tough one. For many Nigerians, the tradition is 
deeply ingrained. It’s not just about showing up in 
matching outfits — it’s about identity, belonging, 
and being part of something bigger than yourself. 
For some, being left out of the Aso Ebi selection 
can feel like being left out of the celebration 
entirely. 
At the same time, there is growing awareness 
of the financial and environmental burden. As a 
result, many are beginning to wonder if there’s a 
middle ground — a way to continue celebrating 
our culture and togetherness without going broke 
or wasting fabric.
“I don’t think we should get rid of Aso-Ebi,” 
Funmi admits, despite her earlier frustrations. 
“But maybe we need to rethink how it’s done. 
People can be more mindful about pricing, and 
organisers should consider the financial realities of 
their guests.”
Exploring Alternatives: What Can We 
Do?
The good news is we don’t have to abandon 
Aso Ebi completely to make it more sustainable. 
There are alternatives that allow us to maintain the 
essence of the tradition while reducing waste and 
expense.
Colour Code
Instead of insisting on a single fabric for everyone, 
some families have started opting for a colour 
code. This allows attendees to wear what they 
ASO-EBI: TO BUY OR NOT TO BUY?
For many Nigerians, especially the Yoruba community, Aso Ebi has 
always been more than just a piece of fabric. It’s a symbol of solidarity, 
friendship, and belonging. This tradition of wearing matching fabrics to 
celebrate weddings, birthdays, and funerals has spanned generations, 
with every occasion requiring its distinct material. Yet, as beautiful and 
culturally significant as Aso Ebi may be, it’s becoming increasingly clear that 
this tradition may no longer be sustainable. The cost, coupled with the one-time 
use of these fabrics, is straining wallets and contributing to waste. Many people 
now find themselves at a crossroads, wondering if buying into Aso-Ebi culture is 
still worth it. Is it time to rethink this practice, or is there an 
alternative to its growing extravagance?
already have or buy fabric that can be reused later 
while maintaining unity through colour coordination.
Reimagining Aso Ebi for Multiple Uses
Rather than spending money on fabrics that will 
only be worn once, consider investing in more 
versatile fabrics that can be repurposed. Outfits that 
can be restyled, re-tailored, or even combined with 
other pieces in your wardrobe help ensure that Aso 
Ebi doesn’t just sit in your closet after the event.
Caps on Prices
Event planners and hosts can do their part by 
setting more reasonable price points for Aso Ebi. 
There’s no need for families to insist on luxurious 
fabrics if they know that it will cause financial strain 
for their guests. By being mindful of everyone’s 
budget, they can make Aso Ebi more inclusive and 
less burdensome.
A Balancing Act
Aso-Ebi is unlikely to disappear anytime soon, nor 
should it. Its cultural significance is too important to 
dismiss. However, the practice could benefit from a 
thoughtful re-evaluation that considers the financial 
and environmental toll it takes on individuals. As 
with many traditions, it’s about balance—honouring 
the past while adapting to the realities of today. 
Ultimately, whether to buy or not to buy remains 
a personal decision, but as more people speak 
up about the challenges of Aso-Ebi, it may be 
time to embrace a more sustainable approach to 
this beloved tradition. As Teni puts it, “Aso-Ebi is 
beautiful, but let’s make sure it doesn’t lose its heart 
in the name of fashion and excess.”
The Essence of Aso-Ebi
At its core, Aso-Ebi is a beautiful concept rooted in unity and cultural pride. 
The Yoruba words “Aso” (cloth) and “Ebi” (family) literally translate to “family 
cloth,” symbolising collective identity. The idea is simple: by wearing the 
same fabric, attendees show their allegiance to the event’s host. Weddings, 
birthdays, naming ceremonies, and even funerals are often marked by the 
vibrant display of Aso-Ebi, making the events colourful and memorable.
“It’s about belonging,” says Teni, a 34-year-old businesswoman in Lagos. 
“When you wear Aso-Ebi, you’re telling everyone at the event, ‘I’m with the 
celebrants; I support them.’ It’s a show of love.” 
The Financial Strain of Aso-Ebi
What was once a fabric everyone could afford 
has become a status symbol, with prices rising 
higher each year. In a single wedding season, 
it’s not unusual to be invited to four or five 
different events, each requiring a different Aso-
Ebi purchase. Some fabrics now cost upwards 
of ₦50,000 per yard, and that’s before tailoring 
costs are factored in. Dependingon the intricacy 
of the style, a complete outfit can set you back 
₦200,000 or more. All for an outfit you may only 
wear once.
“Last year, I spent over ₦500,000 just on 
Aso-Ebi fabrics,” lamented Funmi, a young 
professional based in Abuja. “Between 
weddings, housewarming parties, and birthdays, 
it was non-stop. After a while, it became 
financially exhausting, and honestly, I started 
declining invites.”
This growing concern about the financial burden 
of Aso-Ebi is not uncommon. With inflation 
and the rising cost of living, many people are 
quietly opting out. They love the idea of showing 
support but question whether the cost is 
justifiable. The fact that most Aso-Ebi fabrics are 
worn once and then stashed away also raises 
concerns about sustainability.
Aso-Ebi and Environmental Impact
Beyond the financial strain, Aso-Ebi has another 
less-talked-about consequence: environmental 
waste. Fast fashion and one-time-use outfits 
have been criticised globally for contributing to 
environmental degradation, and Aso-Ebi is not 
exempt from this conversation. According to the 
Ellen MacArthur Foundation, the textile industry 
contributes approximately 10% of global carbon 
emissions, and much of this waste comes from 
clothing worn only once or twice.
“What are we supposed to do with all these 
clothes?” asks Nkechi, a Lagos-based fashion 
enthusiast. “They pile up in my wardrobe, and 
there’s rarely a chance to wear them again. It 
feels wasteful.”
While the cultural significance of Aso-Ebi is 
undeniable, its contribution to environmental 
and financial strain cannot be ignored. So, the 
question remains: Should it be stopped?
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Let’s talk about Dupe Olusola. She has worked in 
agriculture, banking, and now hospitality, all while 
holding a degree in economics. How has she 
been able to handle these various jobs over time?
It’s interesting because there was a time I didn’t 
embrace my diverse industry experience and back-
ground. I have, however, come to completely appreci-
ate and know it’s one of my superpowers. I define my-
self as a transformational leader who is sector agnostic 
with the ability to go in and identify what the key issues 
are and be solutions-focused to add value regardless 
of the sector. My degree in economics is definitely 
a great advantage as it equipped me with analytical 
thinking, problem-solving skills, and a broader under-
standing of market dynamics, which are applicable 
across industries; but beyond this is my mindset to 
deliver and achieve results. Each role has required me 
to constantly adapt, invest in knowledge, and build 
strong teams to support these transitions.
 
Many of our readers, including myself, are curious 
about how you managed to switch from one field 
to another. What qualifications or experiences did 
you have that made the transition smoother for 
you?
 Switching industries has been an exciting chal-
lenge, but like I earlier mentioned, skills like leader-
ship, strategic thinking, and relationship-building are 
transferable. I took on each role with the mindset 
that learning is a continuous process. I started out in 
asset management and finance and then transitioned 
to private equity, working with second-tier financial 
institutions to put funding and structures in place for 
SME financing, to core finance and banking, and 
even working as a chief operations officer at a time, 
overseeing HR, MCC, and subsidiaries, to agriculture, 
and now hospitality.
Over the years, I have taken leadership courses, 
courses in project management, investor relations, et 
cetera, but beyond this, embracing learning at every 
turn has always helped. Like a sponge, I like to soak 
up every opportunity to learn—upwards, downwards, 
and sideways—it is essential, and working with tal-
ented people across various sectors has helped me 
gain insights that I could apply in new environments. 
Each industry has its nuances, but the ability to listen, 
observe, and understand those specific challenges 
and opportunities made the transitions smoother.
My experience in private equity, for example, taught 
me how to identify business opportunities, review 
and raise funds, optimise business and market 
operations, create market linkages, and lead diverse 
teams—all of which were useful when I transitioned 
into agriculture and then hospitality. Networking, 
mentorship, and executive leadership programs also 
helped me smooth out transitions.
Given the current economic situation in Nigeria, 
what role do you think the tourism and hospitality 
sector plays in boosting economic growth?
The tourism and hospitality sector has a critical 
role to play in boosting Nigeria’s economic growth, 
particularly given the current challenges. This sector 
creates jobs across various skill levels, from service 
staff to management roles, which directly addresses 
the high unemployment rate in Nigeria. Additionally, it 
DUPE OLUSOLA
A LEADER IN HOSPITALITY AND 
PHILANTHROPY
Dupe Olusola is a successful leader with over 25 years of experience in various sec-
tors. She is known for her expertise in agric, banking, finance, and corporate mar-
ket economics She is the current t Managing Director/CEO of Transcorp Hotels Plc, 
which owns the Transcorp Hilton Abuja and the online booking platform, Aura by 
Transcorp Hotels. Under Dupe Olusola’s guidance, Transcorp Hilton has achieved 
significant milestones and undertaken transformative projects. From enhancing 
guest services to implementing sustainable practices, her innovative approach has 
propelled the hotel to new heights of success. Through Dupe Olusola’s strategic 
planning and business acumen, Transcorp Hilton has experienced remarkable rev-
enue growth and financial success. Her ability to identify new revenue streams and 
capitalize on market trends has solidified the hotel’s position as a profitable and 
sustainable enterprise. 
Dupe studied Economics in the UK and holds certifications in project manage-
ment and investor management. She is passionate about children’s education, 
women’s empowerment, and economic development. She initiated charity pro-
grams like ‘Forty for Good’ and founded the Next Generation Foundation to support 
vulnerable children in Nigeria. Her dedication to excellence and growth has made 
her a respected figure in the hospitality industry. She continues to inspire others 
through her work and advocacy for diversity and inclusion. In this interview with 
Funke Babs-Kufeji, Dupe tell her journey to the top at Transcorp Hilton and also 
share her thoughts at 50. 
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My advocacy for 
diversity, fairness, and 
inclusion comes from 
a deep conviction that 
when women are 
empowered to lead, 
they bring unique 
perspectives, skills, and 
strengths that help 
organisations and 
societies thrive.
stimulates local economies by supporting industries such as trans-
portation, food and beverage, retail, and the arts.
By attracting international visitors, tourism also brings in foreign 
exchange, which is vital for stabilising the economy. With Nigeria’s 
diverse cultural heritage and natural attractions, we have the po-
tential to attract more international tourists, thereby diversifying our 
revenue streams and reducing the country’s dependence on oil. Do-
mestic tourism is also growing, with more Nigerians exploring local 
destinations. This trend not only keeps money circulating within the 
economy but also encourages infrastructure development.
Moreover, hospitality and tourism foster entrepreneurship and 
innovation, with many people starting businesses in accommoda-
tion,tours, events, and related sectors. Research shows that travel 
and tourism accounted for three percent of total employment in the 
country in 2022. This has continued to grow impressively as domes-
tic tourism expands. The potential is huge, and if well managed and 
supported by the government, tourism can be a powerful tool for 
economic recovery, growth, and long-term sustainability.
But this sector is still largely undeveloped and has a lot of po-
tential for growth. Can you share your thoughts on the industry 
in Nigeria? Also, what steps would you suggest for the govern-
ment to take to develop it and create income for the country?
Nigeria’s hospitality and tourism industry has untapped potential, 
but we need infrastructure improvements, policy support, and invest-
ments to unlock it. That said, I believe that everyone has a role to 
play, from the way we portray our country to showcasing the beauty 
that lies within. We have such a rich and diverse culture with natural 
beauty in so many parts of the country. How well we portray these 
nature’s blessings and present our country will play a huge role in 
attracting investments into the country.
The government must also do its part by implementing the right 
policies and investing in infrastructural development that puts us on 
the map to attract investment. To further break this down, the gov-
ernment can boost this sector by investing in transportation, security, 
and tourism promotion campaigns. Policies that encourage foreign 
investment should be prioritised, and reducing taxes on tourism-
related businesses should be considered as a way to help develop 
the sector. 
 
Since you became the Managing Director and CEO of Trans-
corp Hotels in 2020, what significant achievements has the 
hotel accomplished?
So many. The mindset for us is that it is never business as usual. 
We constantly set up to break our own records as well as exceed 
customer and guest expectations. One of our major achievements 
would include returning to profitability after ending 2020 with a N9bn 
loss. 2020 was a tough and unprecedented year due to the global 
pandemic, but it challenged us to think outside of the box and do 
things differently. Despite the impact on the hospitality industry, we 
adapted quickly by implementing enhanced safety measures, focus-
ing on local tourism, and exploring new revenue streams. Our efforts 
allowed us to stay resilient and continue providing exceptional 
service to our guests.
Through innovation and commitment to our core values of ex-
cellence, execution, and enterprise, we returned to profitability in 
2021, and each year’s revenue and profit ever since have been 
record-breaking. In 2023, our company’s shares ended the year 
as the best-performing on the Nigerian Exchange. Earlier this year, 
we achieved a N1 trillion valuation, making us the first hospitality 
business to achieve this feat, and I am the first female CEO of a N1 
trillion company in the country. We were also recently recognised 
as one of the fastest growing companies in Africa by the Financial 
Times.
We have won several awards within our industry and beyond, 
both locally and internationally. In 2021, we expanded our offerings 
with Aura by Transcorp Hotels, a digital platform designed to revolu-
tionise how people experience hospitality.
We have also made great strides in sustainability, focusing on re-
ducing our environmental footprint through energy efficiency, waste 
reduction, and water conservation programs. This has helped us 
align with global standards in sustainability while positively impact-
ing our local environment.
 
Can you tell us more about Aura by Transcorp Hotels in detail 
and explain the advantages for customers who use the plat-
form?
 Aura by Transcorp Hotels is a digital platform that connects 
customers to a variety of short-let homes, hotels, and unique experi-
ences across Nigeria. Whether you’re looking for a luxury hotel, a 
cosy shortlet, or curated local experiences, Aura offers convenience 
and variety. One of the advantages is that customers have access 
to a trusted network of hosts, ensuring quality and safety. Aura also 
provides personalised recommendations, making it easier for users 
to discover hidden gems based on their preferences.
 
We have been seeing promotions about your event centre. Tell 
us more about that and any other new businesses and initia-
tives you are working on at Transcorp Hotels.
We are incredibly excited about the upcoming launch of our event 
centre in Abuja. This state-of-the-art facility, with a capacity of 5,000, 
is set to redefine the events and conference space in Africa. We have 
designed it to cater to large-scale conferences, exhibitions, concerts, 
and social events, offering cutting-edge technology and world-class 
amenities. It’s a game-changer not only for us but for the entire hos-
pitality and tourism sector in Nigeria. The event centre launches this 
year.
In addition to the event centre, one of our most anticipated devel-
opments is the Transcorp Hilton Ikoyi, which will bring our renowned 
hospitality excellence to one of Lagos’ most prestigious areas. 
 
How do you stay up to date with the latest trends and advance-
ments in the hospitality industry and technology? How do you 
incorporate them into making Transcorp Hotels a world-class 
hospitality brand?
Staying updated requires continuous learning. I attend global 
conferences, keep close tabs on industry reports, and follow innova-
tions in technology and customer experience. At Transcorp Hotels, 
we have adopted cutting-edge solutions and sustainability initiatives 
to improve operational efficiency. We are constantly upgrading our 
services and facilities to meet global standards, ensuring that we 
remain competitive and provide exceptional service.
 
How do you think technology will change the hospitality industry 
over the next five to ten years? Where do you see transcorp fit-
ting into that future?
Technology will play a central role in transforming the hospitality in-
dustry, from AI-powered guest services to virtual reality tours of prop-
erties. Some brands like ours are already stepping into that future. For 
instance, before checking in at our flagship property, Transcorp Hilton 
Abuja, you can visit our website, transcorphotels.com, and take a 
virtual tour of the hotel.
Automation will improve efficiency, while data analytics will offer 
deeper insights into customer preferences. Aura by Transcorp Hotels 
is also already aligned with this future. Our goal is to continue inno-
vating, leveraging technology to enhance guest experiences and stay 
ahead of trends.
 
You have a track record of surpassing 
your achievements in every industry 
you have worked in. Tell us which 
out of the three industries you have 
worked in you have found most re-
warding?
Each industry has been rewarding 
in its own way. I focus more on the 
challenge and the opportunity to truly 
transform and deliver value to all my 
key stakeholders. When I was CEO of 
the Agric business, it stretched me in 
ways I did not believe were possible. 
On a weekly basis, I flew from Lagos to 
Abuja and went 4 hours by road, non-
stop, to Benue State, where the plant 
was located. It was the first and only 
juice concentrate plant in Nigeria; we 
had to work to ensure the product met 
international standards. Benue is seen 
as the food basket of Nigeria, working 
on backward integration, and working 
with the farmers was quite eye open-
ing to understand the challenges and 
the investments required in the space. 
That said, hospitality has been particu-
larly fulfilling. The industry’s ability to impact 
people directly, whether by creating memo-
rable experiences, promoting culture, or 
contributing to the local economy, is incred-
ibly rewarding. 
 
For someone who strongly supports diver-
sity, fairness, and inclusion, and has worked 
in many fields where men are the majority, 
tell us why it’s so important to you to havewomen in leadership positions?
Having women in leadership is critical be-
cause it brings diverse perspectives that lead 
to better decision-making. Women often face 
different challenges than men, and when they 
are in leadership roles, they can advocate for 
policies and practices that support other women in the workplace. 
More importantly, women leaders inspire the next generation to break 
barriers, and that’s a key part of creating a more equitable future for 
all.
I strongly believe that having women in leadership is crucial, not only 
for the sake of diversity but also for fostering innovation, driving growth, 
and achieving greater organisational success. My advocacy for diver-
sity, fairness, and inclusion comes from a deep conviction that when 
women are empowered to lead, they bring unique perspectives, skills, 
and strengths that help organisations and societies thrive.
You are a mother, wife, mentor, and more. Tell us, how do you 
keep a good balance between work and personal life while man-
aging a big company like Transcorp Hotels?
Does that balance really exist? It’s more like work-life integration, 
but I honestly believe that life is in phases and there are different 
requirements at each phase. So, when I had younger kids, there was 
more required in terms of time and it’s the same with when one is 
starting a new company, taking over a distressed business, or run-
ning a business in the middle of COVID. But with life, I have learnt to 
ask for support from others when I need it. I have great support from 
my family; my husband is one of my greatest champions; my parents, 
siblings, and close network of friends—they are constantly rooting for 
me, and they support where required. And of course, at work, I have 
an amazing team who get the vision and are focused on delivery. I 
also have an amazing Board of Directors and a very supportive Group 
Chairman. 
 
You elebrate your milestone birthdays by doing charity projects. 
Can you tell us about the charity work you are doing now that 
you are 50 and why it’s dear to your heart?
To celebrate my 40th birthday in 2014, I invited 40 of my friends 
and colleagues who were also turning 40 in the same year, and we 
all came together to set up the ‘Forty for Good’ funding drive—a 
program aimed at supporting less privileged persons in the areas of 
health, education, and economic empowerment. I am happy with 
the impact we made. As I turned 50, I 
knew I had to do even more to give back 
to society, hence the launch of the Next 
Generation Foundation. It is a philan-
thropic fund set up to contribute to the 
eradication of child neglect in Nigeria. It 
aims to contribute to the reduction of the 
out-of-school-children population and 
positively impact the lives of orphans 
and vulnerable children by providing 
access to education and promoting 
cross-sectoral partnerships for education 
reform. Our mission is to radically trans-
form the quality of life of underserved 
and vulnerable children, using education 
as the primary instrument. I am cur-
rently working on our flagship project, 
“50 by 50.” 50 children from low-income 
families will be provided with multi-year 
scholarships, access to upskilling oppor-
tunities, internships and summer place-
ments, and professional and personal 
mentors. We are partnering with experi-
enced, education-focused social impact 
organisations to reach the children and 
families that need the most support.
The experience is quite humbling. Going to 
these schools and observing the impact—kids 
from low-income homes given the opportunity 
and access to education, the freedom and 
empowerment, the life-changing transformation 
from learning. It was truly an emotional experi-
ence for me. It made me grateful for how far 
I have come but also helped me realise how 
much more there is to do in giving back and 
opening up others to opportunities.
 
You are 50, but you don’t look a day older 
than 35. How have you managed to look so 
youthful, beautiful, and fit?
Thank you for the kind words! Maintaining 
a youthful and vibrant appearance actually is 
from the mind; it flows from inside out. Your thoughts and your mind 
should be clean. Embrace kindness, joy, and all the good things of 
life. If we learn contentment, stay positive, remain optimistic, be kind, 
and wish others well, one can’t help but stay youthful. Everything else 
falls into place after that. The inside must be good for the outside to 
look good. I am also very big on authenticity and learning to live by 
my own rules and not be defined by others’ expectations of me, and 
beyond all, for sure, the grace of God beautifies completely. 
Finally, what advice do you have for women aiming to take on 
leadership positions in their various industries, especially those 
in male dominated industries?
I will be as direct as possible so that it is easy to remember. Be 
open to learning. Ask if you don’t know. Be hard-working, invest in 
yourself, Be kind to people, Be authentic and aim to be an authentic 
leader. Focus on excellence and legacy. Be resilient Keep showing up 
and do it afraid if you must. Give your best in all that you do - work 
and play. Live with purpose and enjoy this life. Finally, don’t see your 
gender as a limitation. Embrace it actually because it is a gift, so 
focus on delivering value, building relationships, and shattering those 
ceilings.
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DARK TROU-
SERS IS A 
MUST
Avoid wearing 
light coloured 
trousers if you 
are not tall, but 
it doesn’t mean 
you shouldn’t 
wear them at all. 
If ou want to look 
taller than you 
are then avoid 
highlighting your 
legs with bright 
coloured trou-
sers and opt for 
darker shades 
to keep them 
concealed. 
WEAR 
VERTICAL 
STRIPES
Use vertical 
stripes to your 
advantage. 
Vertical stripes 
can help you 
look slim and 
taller so can 
pattern shirts 
and tee shirt. 
Totally avoid 
horizontal stripes 
and big check 
patterns. 
AVOID 
BAGGY 
CLOTHES
If you are 
less than 5.7” 
avoid baggy 
clothes. Avoid 
loose fitted 
outfit because 
they can 
make you 
look shorter. 
Make sure to 
wear well-tai-
lored clothes 
that fit and sit 
properly on 
you. 
 PICKING YOUR FOOTWEAR 
When choosing your foot 
wear, try to avoid bright co-
loured shoes. Also choose 
footwear with a little lift (heels) 
to elongate the legs. If you buy 
sneakers, buy sneakers with 
thick soles but don’t let your 
choice of shoes to be too bulky. 
WEARING 
SHORTS
You most 
definitely can 
wear shorts 
but make sure 
to avoid shorts 
with pockets, 
they will only 
make you look 
bulky and draw 
attention to your 
height. To look 
good in shorts, 
wear shorts that 
are just above 
the knee. Long 
baggy shorts 
can make you 
look short. 
5 STYLING TIPS TO 
INCORPORATE IF 
YOU ARE A MAN 
LESS THAN 5.7” 
Looking good is not just about keeping up with trends 
and spending lots of money on designer clothes, it’s also 
about knowing yourself and how to accentuate your best 
features. If you are a man under 5’8″, the right fit and 
proportions can do wonders to maximize your wardrobe. 
Formal events may call for a different approach but when 
it comes to daily dressing consider these tips and tricks 
as way that will enable you to dress in style, comfortably 
regardless of your height.
DAVIDO
AKINS AKINKUGBE
NOBLE IGWE 
WIZKID
ARESE
1. The Friendship
At the heart of Smart Money Woman 
are five women—Zuri, Adesuwa, 
Lara, Tami, and Ladun—who 
form a close-knit group of friends. 
Their relationships are built on 
support, trust, and the shared goal 
of becoming financially savvy. In 
Season 1, we saw these women face 
personal and financial challenges, but 
they always rallied around each other. 
2. Zuri’s Financial Awakening
Zuri’s financial journey was a major 
focus of Season 1. She began as a 
woman living paycheck-to-paycheck, 
constantly in debt despite having ahigh-paying job. Basically, she didn’t 
know how to manage her finances 
and was usually found spending 
lavishly on mundane things. Her 
financial awakening came after hitting 
rock bottom and receiving guidance 
from a financial coach. Zuri learned 
the importance of budgeting, saving, 
and investing. The season ended 
with a promise of a new spicy love 
interest, which we look forward 
to seeing blossom in the second 
season.
3. Fuji House of Lara
Lara is the epitome of an 
independent businesswoman, 
running her own successful real 
estate company. However, she 
also struggles with managing her 
business and personal finances. Not 
to mention family responsibilities that 
By Bukola Amoboye
SIXTHINGS TO REMEMBER ABOUT 
SMART MONEY WOMAN BEFORE 
SEASON 2 DROPS NEXT MONTH
I
t’s official! Smart Money Woman is finally returning for its second season! It only took FOUR long 
years to make it happen;* inserts eye roll.* While we’re a bit annoyed we had to wait this long, all of 
that quickly turns into giddiness as we look forward to the second season coming out in October. The 
announcement came with a trailer that instantly makes you forget about the long wait. We are eager to 
dive back into the world of finance, friendship, and fabulous living that the show has become known for. 
Based on the popular book by Arese Ugwu, the series captivated audiences with its unique blend of 
entertainment and financial education. Before the new season arrives, here are five key things to remember 
about Smart Money Woman:
pull her from every angle, forcing her 
to constantly make tough choices 
for herself. In Season 1, she learned 
that success in business doesn’t 
always translate to smart money 
management. 
4. Adesuwa’s Career Shift
Adesuwa, the corporate lawyer, 
faced significant dilemmas in her 
professional and personal life during 
the first season. She struggled with 
work-life balance, especially while 
dealing with her husband’s reckless 
dealings and the financial pressure 
he put on her. Adesuwa’s character 
arc is one of empowerment as she 
begins to assert herself more firmly. 
Season 2 might reveal whether she 
continues to climb the corporate 
ladder or pivots towards a path 
more aligned with her happiness and 
financial health.
5. Tami - The Rebel 
Rebellious and outspoken, Tami is 
that girl! She runs a mildly successful 
fashion design business that took a 
major hit during the season, leaving 
her in a dire financial situation. We 
also sighted a prospective romance 
brewing for her which we can’t wait 
for them to explore more of in the 
new season.
6. Ladun - Housewife 
Extraordinaire
Lastly, there’s Ladun, who is really 
the soft-life queen. Nothing much 
to say. She is just chilling and 
enjoying her husband’s money. 
Let’s see if that changes in 
Season 2
From the trailer, Season 
2 promises much more 
drama, fun, steamy 
romance and, of course, 
financial literacy. We can’t 
wait!!
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MUST-TRY RELAXING 
ACTIVITIES IN LAGOS: 
A GUIDE TO UNWINDING 
IN THE HUSTLE 
Lagos—Africa’s own sleepless city, bustling with energy, 
traffic, and the constant buzz of life. But while it may 
seem like there’s no pause button in this fast-paced 
metropolis, the truth is hidden among the chaos are 
pockets of calm and relaxation just waiting to be 
discovered. Whether you’re craving a break from the 
never-ending honking or simply want to unwind, Lagos 
has an array of soothing activities that will leave you 
feeling refreshed and recharged. These are just a few of 
the best relaxing activities you can experience in Lagos.
Spa Day at The Oasis Med Spa: 
Luxury and Pampering When life gets overwhelming, and you’re 
in desperate need of some TLC, The Oasis Med Spa in Ikoyi 
should be your first stop. Nestled in Ikoyi, one of the city’s most 
upscale areas, this spa promises an escape into a world of luxury, 
peace, and self-indulgence. Choose from a menu of decadent 
treatments like full-body massages, hydra facials that leave your 
skin glowing, or invigorating body scrubs to exfoliate and renew. 
Every service is tailored to your needs, ensuring you leave feeling 
brand new. After your treatments, you can unwind in their tranquil 
lounge, sipping herbal tea as you relax. 
Candle Making & Perfumery at Lohn Lagos: 
Craft Your Relaxation
If you’re looking for a unique sensory experience that will 
relax you and leave you with something to take home, 
then Lohn Lagos is calling your name. This high-end 
home fragrance brand creates calming atmospheres with 
handcrafted candles, diffusers, and room sprays. At Lohn, 
you can join a candle or perfume-making workshop, mixing 
and matching scents to create your custom fragrance. It’s a 
calming, meditative process as you focus on blending just 
the right notes to create a signature scent that speaks to your 
soul. Plus, you’ll have a beautifully scented candle or perfume 
to remind you of your time well spent.
Pilates at Oma The 
Spa: Strengthen, Center, 
and Breathe
When life gets hectic, 
sometimes all you need 
is to slow down, stretch 
out, and find your centre. 
For those seeking a more 
active but equally relaxing 
experience, Pilates at Oma 
The Spa should definitely 
be on your radar.
With expert instructors 
guiding you through 
a series of mindful 
movements, Pilates at Oma 
helps strengthen your core, 
improve flexibility, and—
most importantly—relieve 
stress. It’s a low-impact 
workout, perfect for toning 
muscles and reconnecting 
with your body. The spa’s 
peaceful ambience further 
enhances the experience, 
allowing you to focus 
entirely on your breath and 
body. 
Pottery at Ceracerni Art 
Hub: Unleash Your Inner 
Artist
Let’s be honest: Sometimes, 
relaxation comes in the form 
of doing something creative. If 
you’re the type who unwinds by 
tapping into your artistic side, then 
Ceracerni Art Hub is your perfect 
match. Located in Lekki, this 
vibrant hub offers a wide range 
of activities, but the pottery class 
is a favourite for many looking 
for something a little out of the 
ordinary. If you’re in the mood for 
something social, they also offer 
‘sip and paint’ sessions, making 
it a great spot to bring friends or 
your significant other for a chilled-
out bonding experience. Leave 
with your new masterpiece and 
the sense of accomplishment that 
comes from trying something new.
AND BUSTLE
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CAULIFLOWER RICE
1. Fine Lines are Sneaking In
Do you catch yourself squinting into 
the mirror, wondering when those little 
lines around your eyes, forehead, or 
mouth appeared? These are often the 
first signs of ageing, and while we can’t 
turn back the clock, retinol can definite-
ly slow it down. Retinol boosts collagen 
production, helping smooth out those 
fine lines and keep your skin youthful.
2. Your Skin’s Texture Feels Rough
Ever run your fingers across your face 
and feel like it’s not as smooth as it 
used to be? If your skin feels bumpy or 
rough to the touch, it’s a sign that your 
cell turnover might need a little help. 
Retinol encourages cell regeneration, 
sloughing off dead skin cells to reveal a 
fresh, smooth layer of skin underneath.
3. Your Pores Are Becoming More 
Noticeable
Enlarged pores can be a frustrating 
skin issue that worsens with age or 
clogged pores. If you’ve noticed your 
pores becoming more prominent, reti-
nol can come to the rescue. It helps to 
clear out and minimise the appearance 
of pores, making your skin look more 
refined and flawless.
4. Sun Damage is Rearing its Head
Let’s face it: we’ve all been guilty of 
soaking up the sun sans sunscreen at 
some point. And while those tan lines 
have faded, the damage may not have. 
If you notice sunspots, uneven pigmen-
tation, or a dull complexion, it’s a sign 
that UV rays have done some lasting 
damage. Retinol helpsto brighten skin 
and fade dark spots over time, leaving 
you with a more even complexion.
5. Breakouts Didn’t Get the Memo 
That You’re an Adult
Adult acne is the worst – and it 
always seems to pop up at the most 
inconvenient times. If you’re still dealing 
with persistent breakouts well beyond 
your teenage years, retinol might be 
just what you need. It helps to unclog 
pores and control oil production, mak-
ing it an excellent tool for keeping acne 
at bay.
6. Your Skincare Routine Feels… 
Stuck
Sometimes, even with the best inten-
tions (and a drawer full of products), your 
skincare routine can feel like it’s not doing 
much anymore. If you’re not seeing the 
results you used to, it could be because 
your skin needs a stronger ingredient to 
make a difference. Retinol is that game-
changer. Whether you’re looking to target 
signs of ageing, texture, or pigmentation, 
it’s a multitasker that can elevate your 
skincare routine to the next level.
7. Hyperpigmentation Won’t Fade
Stubborn dark spots from acne, sun 
exposure, or hormonal changes can 
feel impossible to get rid of. If you’ve 
tried everything from vitamin C serums 
to exfoliating acids without success, it’s 
time to bring in the big guns. Retinol 
can significantly reduce hyperpigmen-
tation by speeding up cell turnover and 
fading discolouration over time.
8. Your Skin Has Lost Its Glow
Remember that healthy, radiant glow 
you used to have? If your complexion 
looks dull and tired, it’s often due to a 
buildup of dead skin cells on the sur-
face. Retinol helps exfoliate your skin on 
a deeper level, revealing the glowing, 
youthful skin hiding underneath. Say 
goodbye to lacklustre skin and hello to 
a brighter, more radiant complexion.
9. You’re Noticing Sagging
Our skin naturally loses its elasticity 
as we age, leading to sagging, espe-
cially around the jawline and cheeks. 
If you’re noticing that your skin isn’t as 
firm as it once was, it might be time to 
turn to retinol. By stimulating collagen 
production, retinol can help improve the 
skin’s firmness and keep things lifted.
10. You’re Ready to Step Up Your 
Anti-Aging Game
Even if you’re not yet seeing any visible 
signs of ageing, prevention is key. Many 
skincare experts recommend starting 
retinol in your late twenties or early thir-
ties to keep your skin looking its best for 
years to come. The earlier you incorpo-
rate retinol, the better chance you have 
of maintaining smooth, healthy skin well 
into the future.
Retinol is often hailed as the holy grail of skincare 
– the secret ingredient that seems to do it all. From 
tackling fine lines to evening out your complexion, 
it’s no wonder people swear by this vitamin A 
derivative. But when exactly should you introduce 
retinol into your routine? Here are ten telltale 
signs that it’s time to welcome this powerhouse 
ingredient into your skincare arsenal.
10 SIGNS IT’S 
TIME TO ADD 
RETINOL TO 
YOUR ROUTINE
A Few Tips for Retinol 
Newbies
• Before you start your 
retinol journey, there are 
a few things to keep in 
mind. Start slow – this is 
a powerful ingredient, and 
your skin may need time 
to adjust. Begin by using it 
just once or twice a week 
and gradually increase 
frequency as your skin tolerates it.
• Always pair retinol with sunscreen. Retinol makes your skin more sen-
sitive to the sun, so SPF is non-negotiable. Without proper protection, 
you might do more harm than good.
• Lastly, be patient. While retinol is incredibly effective, it’s not an over-
night miracle. You’ll need to give it a few weeks, sometimes even 
months, to see the full benefits.
By Bukola Anoboye
‘Blackmail’, written, produced, and directed by Obi 
Emelonye, brings an intriguing and tense story to life. The 
movie was recently released on Amazon Prime Video after 
a solid run in UK cinemas. It presents a unique blend of 
suspense and action, addressing something everyone knows 
exists but chooses to remain oblivious to.
FAME, CYBERCRIME, AND 
THE FIGHT FOR REDEMPTION: 
Plot Summary
The plot is centred on a popu-
lar movie star who finds himself 
in a high-stakes battle against 
Russian hackers. 
Chinda, a movie star with a 
troubled marriage, grapples with 
the consequences of his past in-
fidelities. Unable to reconcile with 
his wife, he turns to pornography 
and masturbation as a form of 
escapism, which ultimately sets 
the stage for the gripping drama 
that ensues. Russian hackers 
gain access to his device and 
threaten to expose him, setting 
off a dangerous game of cat and 
mouse. In a surprising twist, one 
of the hackers betrays her com-
rades and provides Chinda with 
their whereabouts. What follows 
is an intense showdown where 
Chinda must fight for his life.
What We Love
One of the most engaging 
aspects of Blackmail is its sus-
penseful storyline. The plot holds 
the viewer’s attention, keeping us 
on edge as Chinda fights to re-
gain control of his life. The theme 
of privacy invasion feels particu-
larly timely, tapping into modern 
fears about cybercrime and the 
vulnerability of personal informa-
tion. It also raises the question, 
“Are encrypted files/chats really 
encrypted?” I mean, we now 
have word and phrase sugges-
tions for when you’re sending an 
email or text message. Does that 
not imply the software is some-
how able to read your messages? 
In terms of performances, OC 
Ukeje, who plays Chinda, delivers 
a commendable performance, 
standing out as the film’s emo-
tional core. His portrayal of a man 
trapped in a spiralling crisis is 
one of the film’s highlights. An-
other bright spot is his friend and 
brother-in-law, Ruben, played by 
Alessandro Babalola, whose very 
presence on screen felt like a 
breath of fresh air. 
Visually, Blackmail creates 
a claustrophobic atmosphere 
that mirrors the main character’s 
sense of entrapment. The colour 
grading is accurate for the kind 
of movie, and the cinematogra-
phy keeps the momentum going, 
especially during the final con-
frontation with the hackers.
What We Don’t Like As Much
While we thoroughly enjoyed 
Oc Ukeje and Alessandro Babalo-
la’s performances, especially their 
bromance, the rest of the cast’s 
acting was subpar.
It made parts of the film feel 
like a drag, as we just wanted to 
move on from the lacklustre act-
ing. But hey, kudos to the guys 
for carrying the entire movie on 
their backs!
Also, not only was the movie 
predictable for the most part, but 
the resolution was hardly satisfy-
ing because the villains were 
weaker than projected. For a 
Russian syndicate, we expected 
more. However, to be fair, it was 
just the UK branch of their opera-
tions. Still, we wanted more! 
Though the film doesn’t reach 
the heights of some of the top 
releases we’ve seen this year, 
Blackmail is a solid entry into 
Obi Emelonye’s filmography. It’s 
a tense, relevant thriller that will 
resonate with anyone who’s ever 
feared a privacy breach in our 
increasingly digital world.
If you’re looking for a sus-
penseful watch with a few moral 
questions about fame and per-
sonal choices, Blackmail on Ama-
zon Prime Video is worth a try.
M VIE REVIEW
A LOOK AT 
“BLACKMAIL” 
OC UKEJE PLAYS CHINDA
‘BLACKMAIL’, WAS WRITTEN, PRODUCED, AND DIRECTED BY OBI EMELONYE
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